Quote from PMD9409 :

So I'll go with 2) She's lost out of her own mind.

Seems she doesn't know what she wants, guess you'll be playing the waiting game. Good luck.

Meh, I'd honestly rather wait, then date someone else and disappoint/hurt them. I dunno, I'm quite foolish in the way I care about how everyone else will feel.. and I don't believe it's right to possibly hurt someone else becuase I can't give them the respect they deserve.

before it was offocial between me and my gf, back when we were liking eachother but not sure if it would work out; me and my friend biked really far, 2 hot girls walked by, i rode up next to them, said they were pretty, asked if they texted, and got their numbers...literally just like that

does that make me.
1: a pimp.
2: G
3: a bad person/boyfriend
4:fill in the blank with your own word

Quote from logitekg25 :

before it was offocial between me and my gf, back when we were liking eachother but not sure if it would work out; me and my friend biked really far, 2 hot girls walked by, i rode up next to them, said they were pretty, asked if they texted, and got their numbers...literally just like that

does that make me.
1: a pimp.
2: G
3: a bad person/boyfriend
4:fill in the blank with your own word

A normal person.

my friend who i was with said that took balls....my other friend said he gets one of them..i said no

i dont think a normal person would just walk (or ride) up to them and start a conversation by saying "you guys are REALY pretty"

Quote from logitekg25 :

my friend who i was with said that took balls....my other friend said he gets one of them..i said no

i dont think a normal person would just walk (or ride) up to them and start a conversation by saying "you guys are REALY pretty"

Yeah. I dont think so too.

On a more serious note, you sir need to visit England. Its common here. Or atleast down south where I live...

Thats nothing new/amazing. Yes not every guy can do it, but it doesnt make you a bad person, nor a pimp or whatever you want to call it.

i diddnt mean literally a pimp

and here it is almost unheard of

i wanna move to europe

Quote from logitekg25 :

i diddnt mean literally a pimp

Then what did you mean?

Does it make you "cool/hard"?

Kind of I guess. Like I said, not every bloke can do it.

Meeting girls is difficult. like.. almost impossible

idk pimp is more slang over here...it is almost NEVER used to its definition..it means like cool i guess here, only good with girls? attracts many?

and you just gotta go to a place nearby, but where you wont know anybody and bite the bullet and compliment girls

that alone gave me the confidence to ask for 2 girls numbers at my cousins party yesterday...and i WILL see them again

If you got a GF and your doing that then It's kind of sly, how would you feel if your GF got numbers of lads at parties etc?

And yeah it took balls to go up to them and say it, I'm a pretty confident person and I ain't got the balls to do it

Quote from dawesdust_12 :

Meeting girls is difficult. like.. almost impossible

No.

But walking up to complete strangers and chatting them up is something not everyone can do.

Quote from dawesdust_12 :

Meh, I'd honestly rather wait, then date someone else and disappoint/hurt them. I dunno, I'm quite foolish in the way I care about how everyone else will feel.. and I don't believe it's right to possibly hurt someone else becuase I can't give them the respect they deserve.

I am forced to agree, since I am very similar.

Quote from logitekg25 :

and here it is almost unheard of

How so? I see it all the time. Just be yourself and talk to them, they will either talk back or not.

And if you are so proud of getting girls numbers that you "WILL" be seeing again then I hope your gf does the same to you with guys, because trust me, karma sucks.

Quote from DevilDare :

But walking up to complete strangers and chatting them up is something not everyone can do.

True, but I never quite understood the logic. If the person is a complete stranger, why care what they think? You talk to her, compliment, blah blah, and she either likes you or she doesn't.


You guys think about this too much.

that was before we were together...and right after she was "having second thoughts" about even liking me guys

and i REALLY wouldnt care too much if she got guys' numbers, it is her life, as long as she isnt doing too much with them, which i wont be

im pretty laid back when it comes to girls im going out with..

Quote from logitekg25 :

and i REALLY wouldnt care too much if she got guys' numbers, it is her life, as long as she isnt doing too much with them, which i wont be

It'd be dooms day for my GF

i know i dont control their lives...they want to get a guy's number and text them once in a while or even more maybe, go ahead...he can be your best friend

but do anything we will talk, do it again and we are through...maybe not exactly like that, but something along those lines

Quote from logitekg25 :

and i REALLY wouldnt care too much if she got guys' numbers, it is her life, as long as she isnt doing too much with them, which i wont be

Quote from Blas89 :

It'd be dooms day for my GF

I'm with Blas on this one.

logi logi logi, you worry me son.

thats what im here for

Quote from DevilDare :

But walking up to complete strangers and chatting them up is something not everyone can do.

IMO that is quite easy actually, as for you either got in contact or you never see them girls again. What IS hard in my eyes or at least for me is to get from the friendship plain to the romantic plain. That's were a lot of my former relationships failed or never really emerged, when I saw us in the latter but the girl thought us to be just friends. And when she realized my view she backed off.

Quote from logitekg25 :

i dont think a normal person would just walk (or ride) up to them and start a conversation by saying "you guys are REALY pretty"

Yes, a normal person does.

Quote from DevilDare :

No.

But walking up to complete strangers and chatting them up is something not everyone can do.

It's easiest with strangers, you never see them again, and you lose nothing. If anything i'd encourage you younguns to practice on strangers - just incase the one for you turns out to be somebody you've known for a while, but then never have the bottle to ask.

The key is to smile, if i'm nervous I don't smile and I don't pull. If i'm feeling self conscious I don't smile and I don't pull. When i'm feeling gregacious I always pull even when I don't intend too, which unfortunatley can lead to toilet sex which is never very pleasant.

A smile however usually says all that you need too. Even when i'm just looking at a girl across a room - if she smiles back i'll go up to her and say hi. I do love to use silly chat up lines, something that's clearly a chat up line - usually something original or utterly outlandish, but they're less reliable as not everyone has the same sense of humour (I go for humour over cheese). Usually though it just happens: My last innadvertant conquest was because of a hand dryer. Again, toilet sex is never pleasant.

So my advise to all you insecure folk out there is to smile, and avoid pulling in public toilets - especially if you're straight.

exactly...what are some of the lines you use

i speak the truth...the girls i blatently said they were pretty, really were (said with a smile )

sure my first thoughts when i saw them coming and my friend was chugging his chocolate milk, about to puke it out as they passed :doh: was they were hot...but thats not everything, as they passed i smiled at them and they smiled back laughing at my friend, and i saw they were really pretty

Quote from Becky Rose :

It's easiest with strangers, you never see them again, and you lose nothing. If anything i'd encourage you younguns to practice on strangers - just incase the one for you turns out to be somebody you've known for a while, but then never have the bottle to ask.

My friend, just gets stage frozen when against a complete stranger who in his mind is more superior. (Male or female)

Thats what I basically meant when I said, "not everyone can do it".

But yeah, I agree. No one gets hurt if you try. You get rejected, well so be it. But you might not!

I honestly don't see what people expect to gain by posting their personal issues in this thread, really. Instead of coming on here and stating a problem and waiting for advice, just figure things out yourself. As long as you don't say anything that's horribly virulent, provocative, or perverted, the worst that will likely happen is you will get rejected, unless the person you're talking to, or their loved ones or significant other(s) aren't sane. Or if you aren't sane and don't realize what is and isn't a bad thing to say.

Quote from wheel4hummer :

I honestly don't see what people expect to gain by posting their personal issues in this thread, really. Instead of coming on here and stating a problem and waiting for advice, just figure things out yourself. As long as you don't say anything that's horribly virulent, provocative, or perverted, the worst that will likely happen is you will get rejected, unless the person you're talking to, or their loved ones or significant other(s) aren't sane. Or if you aren't sane and don't realize what is and isn't a bad thing to say.

Because people can? I doubt anyone takes what people says overly seriously. To me its just a way to pass time until the new patch comes out.

Anyways sometimes people have to vent, no matter where it is. Bottling emotions suck (I'm a victim of it). If this thread is the only thing that lets people vent then why not just let it stay? Maybe people shouldn't talk about their lives, yeah that makes plenty of sense.

Go complain about who the stig is or the inevitable picture thread, maybe even "Post your desktop" as it seems pointless, correct? Well it's not at all. The threads stay on topic and they achieve there purpose. Sure you might not like some of them but you probably don't like rFactor, iRacing, or nkp either, do you?

Quote from PMD9409 :

Because people can?

People can what?