Post Your Girlfriend / Love Life Advice 101
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this thread is a lockage if you ask me!
Oh yea, broadcast to the world that somebody that wasn't you was raped. All you do is prove that you make aload of bull so you actually have something to post in this thread. If a girl is raped, the last thing she will want to do is have sex soon after, you don't even need to be an amoeba to know that. If what you say is true, then you are a gullible young boy and she has told you she was raped for sympathy, no woman gets sympathy from me unless I see it first hand, because women are oh so good and turning on the waterworks and pretending something gone bad so they can get what you want.
If what you say is true mate, you got played! You think you got what YOU wanted, and make it out as if it was your sick game all along when really, she got what SHE wanted and you're there thinking you had her all along!
You said that she told you she was raped and then had SEX with you? LOL You got so played, you talk on here as if your so mentally stable that nothing bothers you in terms of a relationship when really you block out the intricates to boost your 2inch ego hahahahah
... Blueflame, maybe you only have tramps in your life. This person is someone who I do trust a lot. I'm certain that she wouldn't lie, especially in the context of the situation, along with her descriptions of said person. This person also isn't someone I just met last week, I dated her for nearly 2 years, and have been good/close/best friends with her for 3. There's nobody I would trust more than her, and I'm sure that the same is reciprocated as well.
Who is to say either that it was what I wanted. You assume that I'm male, thus all I want is sex; however, I care about her a lot. I was foolish for throwing her away as I did.
I don't claim either to be mentally stable in a relationship either. I get upset a lot in terms of relationships, and I communicate that to the person who I'm in the relationship with. I have also communicated my feelings towards my friend too, as there's no reason to keep them a secret, especially when I've said nearly everything about my life to this person.
Anyways, go try and start a flamewar somewhere else, it's a situation that has upset me quite a bit but at least for the time being she's safe and seemingly happy. Who knows what the future entails, but I'll be her friend and there for her as much as I can.
You forgot to argue against the fact she had 'sex' with you after being 'raped' whilst you comforted her telling her it would be ok?
i don't think he said how long after. but i could be wrong.
the way you're talking (blueflame), you'd think she had just been violated and then called round to Dawesdusts place for a booty call. snap out of it man.
Well he didn't say I was wrong when I said that, the way he made it sound is that they share information all the time and are the best of friends, and that she came over that night. He didn't correct me on that, wonder why?
oh, so because he didn't say something you expected him to say, then all your points have been proven?
who do you think you are to tell anybody how they or their friends should cope with being raped? it doesn't matter if they had sex 5 minutes after the girl was violated. what matters is that the sex they (Dawes and the lady) had was consensual. the girl was and still is friends with Dawedust. they used to be in a relationship so there's chemistry there already.
maybe if you weren't so determined to smite another user down, then you might be able to understand the situation a little bit better. maybe then you wouldn't of posted here because all you're doing is showing people how spineless you actually are.
you're a real classy guy blueflame. real classy.
who do you think you are to tell anybody how they or their friends should cope with being raped? it doesn't matter if they had sex 5 minutes after the girl was violated. what matters is that the sex they (Dawes and the lady) had was consensual. the girl was and still is friends with Dawedust. they used to be in a relationship so there's chemistry there already.
maybe if you weren't so determined to smite another user down, then you might be able to understand the situation a little bit better. maybe then you wouldn't of posted here because all you're doing is showing people how spineless you actually are.
you're a real classy guy blueflame. real classy.
It was 2 weeks. Incidentally enough (which makes the thing kind of strange).. was I was at her place saying hi to her family when she came home from the incident. Kinda strange in the scheme of things. Did also make it more convenient and more likely for her to say something, as I couldn't let go the fact she was visibly upset over something.
I didn't correct it becuase I chose to ignore a lot of your crap [blueflame]. We did hang out too quite a bit between the incident and the sex (and after, so you don't try to say she did just use me for sex). Where we just talked, hung out, were friends. We still are friends.
Anyways Blueflame, anything else you can try to drag out of context, or read from nowhere?
Well I do find it stange, if the incident of rape took place along time ago, why tell everyone on the internet now? Or foremost, why tell anyone at all? Is it really anyones buisness but hers unless she chooses to tell someone herself of course?
It's not like he's naming a person, "its just a friend".
"Why tell everyone on the internet now"... really? Come on...
Dustin simply took the whole thread's philosophy to a new level
I made the first post regarding it kinda log ago, and I didn't post it initially until I saw what happened. It was delayed, mostly as I mulled over it. Not to mention, due to the nature of it, I can't talk about it with close friends... Might as well use the anonymity of the Internet. It's easier that way.
Anyways. This topic is stupid. Let's talk about porn.
Anyways. This topic is stupid. Let's talk about porn.
Bullshit.
People deal with rape differently. Some completely recluse, others seek out intimacy to hopes of being comforted.
And going to someone who you know cares about you after a tragic ordeal like that seems like a pretty logical thing to do.
Its similiar to the situations where after a child has been raped/molested for years, when they're teenagers/adults they go out seeking intimacy and love and to everyone else they just look like huge sluts.
You can't judge someone like that, and you're a complete ****ing tool because you are.
for the record i havent posted a single picture of anyone i wasnt going out with 
who thinks i should post my current
who thinks i should post my current
wich one? :
Your sig is not correct this time.
Yeah!!! Because you are!
Might as well you attention whore.
lol, i just woke up when i typed that, my grammar fails
i meant hes a complete tool for judging her like that
my actual gf
(its fb offocial)
(its fb offocial
)oh mah gosh! its seriouzzzz... its fb official! dayummn!
i dont have you on fb so i pics or gtfo :P
i dont have you on fb so i pics or gtfo :P
Now I really do not think that the 43,631 registered users of this forum are on your Facebook.
Cmon, post it there instead
BTW, are you still with that 18 yo one?:munching_
yeah i am still with her, and eh...what the hell, el pibe got a teaser
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