Agreed. LOL Jibber I thought you had met your soul mate? And that everything was perfect? Now you're talking to invisible people you've never met, boasting here that it's a girl who works in the porn industry (infront of behind the camera, both is just as morally degrading)
Don't you see it? Acting a porn movie, directing, editing, soundman, it doesn't mean shit cos porn films are shit you only watch it for the sex, that's why you don't see people in the credits, now-a-days it's all handycam. Porn is morally degrading, if you think otherwise you're a fool, YEA I AM A PORN ACTOR I SCREW LOADS OF GIRLS THAT ARE GETTING PAID TO SCREW ME, AREN'T I COOL KEKEKEKEKE. It ain't game if money is involved.
If you're close-minded, fine.. believe that porn is something that's a crime against morality. In the end it's just a job. Sure idiots carry a stigma around that "herp derp porn = bad"... but it's no different than any job. Ultimately you're just whoring out your skills and time for money anyway.
Well considering sex is supposed to be a sacred bond between a loving man and a loving woman, I will stand by that it's a moral crime, if you can be happy with your girlfriend being a porn star then you can honestly admit you don't find it morally degrading, but let me tell you, any man, will not allow their woman to sleep with another man unless they are a weird pervert.
Men are posessive, we are supposed to be, what you are saying is that, if your GF was a porn star, you're sitting on here writing about how porn isn't degrading or morally wrong, whilst she is at a custy guys house getting her ass ploughed. She comes home worn out and you won't get any not that you WOULD want any, unless you like the sensation of sloppy seconds.
Sex is not supposed to be about a sacred bond. Sex is something that we do as animals in order to reproduce. The Christian church might lead you to believe otherwise and sex outside of marriage is "wrong and a sin" but by now we all know that religion is a load of crap only believed by idiots.
As for the feelings that you describe – evidentially from experience, as you can so vividly describe them – haven't you noticed that porn stars do tend to date other porn stars? Or work scenes with their significant other?
Lol, Related to that image.. I totally told my girlfriends 9 y/o brother that the internet was for porn.. 2 weeks later she came back to her laptop to see searches in youtube (of all places ) for "porn"
You're both on my ignore list (Dustin and Blueflame), but i admit i was curious to read the posts...
I agree with dustin (strangely).
And Blue "Mr. Moral" Flame... i sometimes have a hard time taking the stuff you write serious. I try not to judge people, and i honestly couldn't care less and hope you don't take personal offense by me saying this... but, you sound like you're living with pink glasses on, or like some (near)cult church has taken you under their wings... i don't know. Have you ever seen the real world? If you're happy with a life of prejudice and closing your "doors" against anything and everything you don't understand or have never experienced... dude, i wish you a happy life with that, but for my part, no thanks! I had a good laugh reading your posts though...
PS: Finding one of your soulmates doesn't mean both are "ready" for that. It's a bitter pill if you are the one who would be ready and want something like that, but that's life for you right there. Que sera sera.
You know Blueflamer, that might be the funniest part... Pushing your own views onto your offspring (Non-existant-god help them) might be more dangerous than letting them find shit out on their own.
I'd use myself as an example (my parents haven't pushed anything on me or my sisters at all), but you'll just come back and say that's a bad example just because of the way I act on the internet.
So I'll use a different example. Christianity pushes ideals on all sorts of things, yet they don't make sense. Why should I care if a man decides he wants to blow another man?
(Make it simple for you: I shouldn't care at all).
Why should I care if someone who isn't prepared for a child makes the choice to abort it?
(Simple: Better to have a fetus aborted, then grow up in poverty with a parent who isn't capable to deal with the stress or responsibility of a child)
These ideals that christianity FORCES on people (and it keeps going, as evidenced by a majority of USA) play a huge reason why the world is so ****ed up. Egypt/rest of middle east are similar, just with a different religion.
Sorry but those reasonings you give, are totally unrelated to pornography. But oh yea, I get it, your parents are totally slack with parenting, but I call BS on that, if your sister(if you have one) revealed to the family that she was a porn star your parents wouldn't give a shit? Sex can be painful, especially for a female, if as a parent you have any respect or care for your child, you would stop them from doing such things. Porn is degrading in so many ways, it's like saying, yes, I have a brain, I have an opinion, but to earn my money in this world I am going to have sex infront of a camera.
The question remains, "Could you date a pornstar, knowing she was sleeping with other guys more than she was with you?"
If no, then the article remains, if you have to be IN porn buisness to date a porn star without complications then it's clearly taboo for a reason. If you can't answer the question with a yes, then you are in denial about the whole agenda of porn not being morally right/wrong. Of course if you are a porn star you won't give two shits about dating another one... That argument makes no sense.
If porn isn't morally wrong why do we not allow minors to watch it? After all, sex is natural right? Anyone can do it.
Think what you wish, but I know several girls who have been involved in a complete non-sexual way with the adult entertainment industry (photographers, media, etc). You don't have to be engaged in any sexual acts to be involved in the industry. Of course, that being said, 99% of people's first thoughts (admittedly, mine included) about someone in the industry may be less than wholesome. That doesn't mean that everyone in the industry is a slag, though.
I fail to see your point. Just because you don't want to be in a relationship with a porn star doesn't mean it's morally degrading. If a porn star enjoys what they're doing and doesn't have any issues with it, what right do you have to say otherwise?
The fact that I, personally, don't want to date someone who has sex on camera for a living doesn't make me hypocritical, either, because my stance on the matter is that of personal choice. In other words, I don't want to date someone who does it, but I in no way think those that do it are morally wrong. They just have a different set of values than I do. And that, again, does not make it morally degrading. Something can only be degrading if someone is ashamed of what they are doing. An absence of shame means an absence of degradation. Remember, your views are not the views of everyone else.
Ironic, since you're one of the biggest ones on the forum.
Choice IS opinion. If someone has different morals to you, then you automatically narrow it down to, THEY ARE WRONG in your moral opinion, go the the greater audience, are we ALL porn stars? No, because we all have better things to do with our time, ask older people, would they do pornography? Or let their children do it? Maybe some day when you people have a responsibility in life, when the weather or what shoes to wear isn't the only trouble in your life, will you realise that you don't go around trying not to offend people.
Instead of being all sheepish saying, "well, i just kinda don't kinda think that we have the same moral values" Just say "I think you're wrong" at least you will seem like a man about it.
Maybe I am the only one here who has enough strength in my hand to not let gravity pull it to my cock and jack myself off.
Why are you guys arguing about this anyways? She isn't infront of the camera, but behind the camera. Those are two totally different things, and if you think they are within any comparison then you are being extremely closed minded.
If you honestly think it is anything remotely the same then you wouldn't date that person because it would hurt your image more so than anything else. That to me is more wrong than anything else you can do.
I'll give you props on that. Even when there's a terrible thread talking about Apples and what not, you do come up when some good stuff. The one I enjoyed the most was:
Actually, the weather and shoe choice never affect my decisions. I have one pair of shoes, rain or shine (except, of course, for my dress shoes, which only come out when the suits do). Also, I don't go around 'trying not to offend people.' I say what I feel should be said. Just because someone has a different moral opinion doesn't make theirs wrong, it just makes it different. That's the thing about morality (and ethics)- there is no right or wrong. Life is not black and white. Frankly your world view is pretty sad, to me. I kind of feel bad for you (but not in that 'I'm a good person and want to help' way, more in the 'I'm damn glad I'm not like you' way).
I did say 'I think you're wrong,' just in different words.
Congrats on not giving in to sexual urges. I hope your sex life is full of sacredness and fulfillment... or whatever. I feel no shame in the occasional tug. My sex life is also very fulfilling; for both myself and my mate.