I'm on my third playthrough on the PS3. It's much easier than the previous titles, but IMO it's also the most fun from the series. Hasn't left my ps3 since release...
Is Dark Souls 2 more linear than Dark Souls 1? I really liked Demon's Souls, but was completely lost on Dark Souls 1 because I always seemed to walk the wrong way. I remember being fresh from the asylum and walking into an area designed for lvl 40-50 characters because I didn't see where else to go. It took me an hour of fighting each monster for ~3-5 minutes until I realized I was supposed to walk somewhere else where I could one-shot enemies.
I started to feel that way too after playing dark souls 2. I actually went and bought the DS1 prepare to die edition thinking i'll enjoy it more...
Have you actually tried DS1 again since you last played it?
When i did, i realised DS2 is MUCH MUCH prettier, more fun, and the controls/gameplay are miles better too.