Thanks for the replies but:
I think you missed my point. In a real car I would not be able to move the stick out of neutral under heavy load but as It's a joystick "I can" I would just like the option to have it go into neutral because if in a real car the gearstick was in neutral, it's not in gear. (the current method allows you to cheat somewhat by changing gear then clutching afterwards for a fraction of the time it takes to change gears)
It would still be cool to have to match the revs to get it into the next gear and you could even add some crunching sounds if you dont get it right.
My improvement suggestion is to add an option to choose how I'd like it to behave. I realize the reasoning behind the current method and that alot of you like it how it is. I don't want to force it on all, just have the option.
:?)