I have a problem with when I try to join a specific host (with the correct name) it gives me this problem or when I search their name and then join it gives me that problem... any clues?

might not be able to connect to server then; may just be behind a router thats closed

All the times i tried to join a server he makes, it gives me the error, so it's at his end?

yes, must be; that is, if no one else can join, if other people can join then its your side

alrighty, thanks XC, Have a Merry Christmas :snowman:

almost

30 minutes!

okay, 32 according to the forum