It's more of venting out about that attitude in people generally, not to you directly sorry..
Those movies you mentioned are all great, but in their own way, this is a different aproach, this aproach doesn't need amazing story, it's just there cause they couldn't get away without one probably, just like say no game can get away with having just a single player campaign, or just multiplayer nowadays, it's gotta have both to sell more.
What dialoge are you talking about, that's how milittary personal talk, and that's just the beauty of it that it's the real guys, cause actors would well, over-act it.
That's what's pissing me off, you probably knew that the real SEAL's are the actors, you had to.. and why oh why do yoy have to pay attention to their acting? That's just 'modern' and 'hipster' way of watching movies, over judging them and beeing picky WHILE the movie lasts, people are not letting themselves enjoy movies anymore, they have to be like " O M G, look at what he's smoking, there was no Lucky Strike in 1784, let's stop watching this.." (with eye-rolles and everything.
It's a movie for people who are into this kind of stuff, i even wrote that, and for people who don't over-judge everything just so they can call themselves smart..
Sorry for the rant.