The cockyness... its just a feeling, but i'll try and explain what it is for me.
As I said, its his actions, not his words, i think they give a person away more than what they say because those things can be scripted and you can easily express any message you want with words. Actions tend to be more real, and theres been times when ive seen him celebrating wins and he likes to emphasis things, silly things like running up stairs to show he's not tired, he's full of energy and this is just a walk in the park for him.
I never get the feeling when he's talking that what he's saying is what he truely feels, he often sounds like hes trying to pass himself off as the average bloke, just like everyone sat at home watching, because they want to feel some connection to him. It feels a little too false, media friendly, charm offensive kinda stuff.
Confidence is being able to run round the Nurburgring when its been absolutely lashing it down, you've dumped it into the gravel once already, you lost a wheel of the car to some freak incident the day before and gone flat out into a tyre barrier, and now you've come to the conclusion that despite it being a wet track, your going to go out onto dry weather tyres because you believe you can still drive at a decent pace and when a dry line comes you'll be on the right tyres to make a move.
Confidence is being a good 30-40sec ahead of your rival and any other driver, when the weather is horrible, people are sliding off everywhere, and your still going round as if your season depended on you making up a 40+ sec gap, not defending one. So i dont think confidence covers what im refering to, he's clearly got bags of that, you'd have to in order to do the things he's done with so little experience,
Dont get me wrong, i love the guy, and he's got to where he is by being exactly who he is. But 'cocky' to me sums up a little of his personality IMO. He's still a geniunely nice guy, but i think he likes to try to put on a bit of a show for the cameras from time to time.
Steady on fella!