No-one cares.
I agree, no one cares, and here ... yeah great place to get motivation from dumped guys stuff BIG L - O - L
Find a hobby. No point sitting around hoping someone on the internet will sympathise with you! Keep your mind busy doing something you enjoy!
Play LFS, not only will it destroy your social life but you will forget your social life!
Side Effects: LFS gets boring after years of racing, and not much progress has been made lately, so your weeping could come back.
But after a couple years you won't give a toss anymore.
Side Effects: LFS gets boring after years of racing, and not much progress has been made lately, so your weeping could come back.
But after a couple years you won't give a toss anymore.
enjoy your hand
Just play hardcore LFS and you will get over it
hardcore LFS eh? Is that the porn mod?
And this is why you never ever shal post anything serious on this forum, because people just don't know how to discuss propper. Therfor they will most likely flame you or offend you.
Also, I think it's not wise posting such things on internet, you never know what jokes people can make out of it if you go into person details.
Neverthless, best thing will be to use some time for yourself, to just find out what makes you happy. Play games if you like that, go on a trip if that's your way of entertaining yourselfe, then when you are ready use a lot of time with friends. Friends are great at that way that you don't have to speak with them about it, but using time with them will remove the focus from beeing dumped by the GF/BF, and you'll get over it soon.
Your only 16, you'll manage this and you sooner or later are going to find a new one to share your time with
Good luck, you'll manage. Time and friends will help you.
Also, I think it's not wise posting such things on internet, you never know what jokes people can make out of it if you go into person details.
Neverthless, best thing will be to use some time for yourself, to just find out what makes you happy. Play games if you like that, go on a trip if that's your way of entertaining yourselfe, then when you are ready use a lot of time with friends. Friends are great at that way that you don't have to speak with them about it, but using time with them will remove the focus from beeing dumped by the GF/BF, and you'll get over it soon.
Your only 16, you'll manage this and you sooner or later are going to find a new one to share your time with
Good luck, you'll manage. Time and friends will help you.
As said, go do something. Go out with some mates and then meet someone new when your ready.
Coming on here to discuss it is'nt worth it.
Coming on here to discuss it is'nt worth it.
Ah, the sweet agony of teenage love. How I miss those times of completely dissolving into self pity 
No worries, you'll get over it, and most likely you will suffer and cause much heart pain untilo you grow older than 25.
No worries, you'll get over it, and most likely you will suffer and cause much heart pain untilo you grow older than 25.
11 years ago the girl I'd been going out with for about a year dumped me totally out of the blue. She stayed at mine the weekend before, as normal, then got rid of me over the phone (the phone!) towards the end of the next week. I was crazy about that damn girl. Took me over a year to get back to normal after that. Even a couple of years afterward I'd have taken her back if she'd asked.
Not really sure why, although I'm damn sure it didn't help that we shared friends so I ended up seeing her everywhere I went.
So there's your first piece of advice - don't go to places you know she's going to be, it doesn't help. If she's dumped you, chasing her around isn't going to fix it
Secondly, something I wish I'd realised at the time - after a couple of months I was getting very flirty sympathy from a couple of girls I knew, one that I worked with especially. I should have taken advantage of that. Because then, if she'd been surprised when I made a move, I could've blamed it on being too emotional. Score.
Second piece of advice - take solace and comfort where you find it. You can get away with a lot of stuff
Drinking doesn't usually help, but having a fun social time with friends does. I did a bit of clubbing and partying with friends (the ones the ex didn't hang out with) and that was the only time I wasn't thinking about her. Of course, once the fun died down a bit it was back, but I was happy while it lasted.
Nobody can tell you what to do to help, because everyone handles things differently. All you can do is keep going and eventually it gets longer and longer between bouts of sadness, until you realise you hardly think about it at all.
There's a blues song in there somewhere, I know it.
Not really sure why, although I'm damn sure it didn't help that we shared friends so I ended up seeing her everywhere I went.
So there's your first piece of advice - don't go to places you know she's going to be, it doesn't help. If she's dumped you, chasing her around isn't going to fix it
Secondly, something I wish I'd realised at the time - after a couple of months I was getting very flirty sympathy from a couple of girls I knew, one that I worked with especially. I should have taken advantage of that. Because then, if she'd been surprised when I made a move, I could've blamed it on being too emotional. Score.
Second piece of advice - take solace and comfort where you find it. You can get away with a lot of stuff
Drinking doesn't usually help, but having a fun social time with friends does. I did a bit of clubbing and partying with friends (the ones the ex didn't hang out with) and that was the only time I wasn't thinking about her. Of course, once the fun died down a bit it was back, but I was happy while it lasted.
Nobody can tell you what to do to help, because everyone handles things differently. All you can do is keep going and eventually it gets longer and longer between bouts of sadness, until you realise you hardly think about it at all.
There's a blues song in there somewhere, I know it.
I care, atleast like ... i feel bad when someone is being dumped ... i just remember my situation what ive had. U guys are mean
You should post it on 4chan... 
In future keep comments like that for yourselfe or find other way to air you opinion about a matter.
I second that.
Friends are great at that way that you don't have to speak with them about it, but using time with them will remove the focus from beeing dumped by the GF/BF, and you'll get over it soon.
Agreed with Larry. And hey to you Larry btw, I wrote a "hey" to you in a other topic but that got deleted (bob was that you, sam maybe??) , either way - use time on friends and family and you'll be up running in no time!
Well, when you posting you are creative and thinking, while you reading the replies your brain prossessing information, it's just natural that it removes the thoughts of the lady 
Joke aside, just doing things generally helps, I found out playing games helped. No questions, and I could take my time needed to get myself back up. Do what you want, and what helps, but find out what exactly works for you - no one are allike
Joke aside, just doing things generally helps, I found out playing games helped. No questions, and I could take my time needed to get myself back up. Do what you want, and what helps, but find out what exactly works for you - no one are allike
Well to be honest when I was splitting up with mine I found that if I mulled about it it would make it worse.. hasten to add we're back together now and it's coming up to our 1 year anniversary..
Anyway I found that hanging out with friends.. or just going out and doing something to take your mind off it would help... TBH mulling over it on the internet just's going to make you try to kill yourself.
Anyway I found that hanging out with friends.. or just going out and doing something to take your mind off it would help... TBH mulling over it on the internet just's going to make you try to kill yourself.
I have mulled on internet before, but even if I did get flamed in large amounts I did never thing of that. Generally I think most people don't think way, but the ones that doing it probally have more problems than just their rellationship partner dumping them
Neverthless, even if we are a forum and we can write what we want, since nobody cares, I don't see the need of this new trend on the forum - be an **** and people will like you.
Gone from bad to horrible the last two weeks, and the continue linking to 4chan starting to really piss me off.
With all respect, sorry for ruin your topic and subject, but if I were moderator I would give out one warning to anyone mention a joke or saying something like put it on 4chan.
Now we do KNOW that forums won't help you if you got real life issues, but better just ignore posting here if you just are going to post crap. But I guess it's temptating to jump the flamewaggon for the sake of your reputation
Ok, I ruined this topic, sorry for that matey, but keep in mind, you have been getting away easy this time. If you had been unlucky you would be reading a pretty offending and trashy topic by now.
Wish you the best luck, and remember, you are only 16, there are A LOT of fishes in the ocean, and beliving no one of them are going to be yours is naive
So 1 - get a hold on yourselfe, use time for yourselfe to sort out personal issues (if you got) 2 - get out with friends 3 - when time is ready, make new moves. And in no time this will just be one little memory you can look back upon and smile while you say "huh, yeah I remember that, it sucked :rolleyes: "Don't worry, you'll find someone who puts your last girl to shame.
Thought you was single mate. No offence intended of course. Good to hear you've been with her for a year though, she sounds like a good'un.
As for me, i've broke up with a few girls but they were just stupid relationships from when i was 9-10 years old. I've been with my current girlfreind since i was 11 (known each other since we was 5) and started going out on my birthday. Im now 17 and were still together. We've had some major arguments, and she does nag abit, but i love her to bits so i put up with it because i dont want to lose her.
Really? Asking advice on Sim Racing forums? 
Start going out to town/park with mates and have a good time. You will forget her instantly....
Start going out to town/park with mates and have a good time. You will forget her instantly....
Girlfriends are a waste of time and money.
Friends are better.
Friends are better.
find another one...and another one.
because with two girlfriends you can loose one of them without staying alone!
because with two girlfriends you can loose one of them without staying alone!
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