Once you are comfortable with who you are, which tends to settle in around your mid 20's or so in most people then for a non-bigot it wont matter to you, because you know who you are and what you want - so somebody you dont want being interested in you is no big deal.
At your age, after years of indocrtination into playground homophobia to the extent it is so ingrained that most teenagers dont even realise just how vile and sick their attitudes are, or to put it in your words...
The bottom line is your attitudes are symptomatic of a fairly ordinary childhood in a typical religiously influenced background or environment.
It's nothing to be ashamed of, provided you grow up when it is time to.
If a guy hits on you politely let them know you're not interested and treat treat it as a compliment of your manly manliness.
It's happened a few times to me and it made me feel quite pleased with myself
"..actually I thought you were. Gay, I mean."
"I tried it once, but I didn't like it. I couldn't keep up with the prohibitive standards of hygiene. And all that dancing."
Also logitek, Take note; Becky rose is lesbian/gay ( I believe...? ) And everyone likes her.. and... without lying abit more than you so don't say that ruins your reputation.
In this statement you brand me a rapist because I am homosexual.
I shan't brand you back.
I just hope that one day you put a little bit of thought into the culture of hatred you help foster every time you call something gay in a derogatory manner.
i have a bum chum too. his name is kev. he lives in york I think or somewhere.. i dunno. i met him near some docks, behind a huge fudge packing plant. he was a pretty nice guy, a web developer too!
You do know, You don't have to be so openly gay as you " See " On TV, Not every gay person talks with a lisp, Paints dogs pink, Or the like, Most people are people you talk to every day.
No offense to the people that do this, But you act like the second your gay pfft, It's game over bro, And that's not the case because you can just keep it to you and the guy/girl you are seeing, And nobody has to know.
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Yes but the way you said it can be taken that every person that isn't straight is a rapist, You need to be careful how you word stuff.
lulwut? that doesn't even make sense. What does rape have to do with being gay? And making mistakes is the same everywhere, I haven't seen anyone from my high school in two years (except the three who really care about me, and I about them), so mistakes are temporary. Any mistakes I made in high school are effectively wiped away and now I can make all new mistakes with the "learning experiences" I have had
EDIT ah ignore the bit about gay and rape apparently
whats that even supposed to mean? theyre the embodyment of prejudice? they arent merely prejudiced theyre prejudice itself? like the gods of prejudice?
Well, it's kinda true. Life is sorta pointless. no matter what you do, you won't make a true difference to anything. Sure you might make a temporary change to someones feelings.. but they'll die as well so it's forgotten. Hence why if I die, I don't really care.
Maybe that's just my true optimism in life showing...