You seem to use the word "salty" quite a lot but if you would have contributed for the game as well, you might end-up seeing crackers making treats with quite a different perspective. These people clearly stole the game for a while and now they're used to it so they went upset when they've been hold from their stolen candy, simply.
Those who were not "civilized" were some of the hackers coming on the official forum (the irony) insulting legit members.
You seem very respectful but I don't agree when you say that both sides got valid points. If someone doesn't have the cash to get a Porsche, he can't just steal it by pretending he isn't rich enough to buy it. The only difference here is that it's easier to steal LFS than an actual car, and that LFS cost 10 times less than an iphone and 5 to 10 times less than a FFB wheel. The poverty argument isn't a point if you need a computer, an ISP and most probably a wheel to play this said game.
I ain't rich either, I just find this game unique in it's feel and approach so I want to encourage it's development. I believe this whole topic is more a question of ethic rather than actual money. I hope some of them will come to reason, as this indy game deserve to be supported and if they're so addicted to it, they know it.
Happy Holidays to the Scavier and everyone (yes, everyone!).