It the end it was all just a shitty "religious" message. The first 30 minutes or so really makes it apparent. "A story that will make you believe in God". The final message is excellent though - believe whatever you want to believe as long as it makes you happy. So it applies to the endings as well.
And I JUST found out (after 6 months) that there has been a dispute couple years ago between my sister and some woman - turns out that woman is my girls god mother. Whelp!
Now the whole idea that her parents simply don't want me to be with her isn't so crazy after all. All starting to shape into some Romeo and Juliet shit...
As I said, the home by 6 thing is pressured from the idea that she has to do well in college, but still... I agree, its kinda dumb. I sometimes feel like he sees me as some guy who just de-rails all the girls and leads them on the wrong roads. He is both disrespecting me in some ways and shows that he has no trust whatsoever in his daughter. I know her, she is too smart to be led along.
He also mentioned to her how she shouldn't get too attached to me because she is "definitely not my first girlfriend" (which is true) but has no significance in any way. Kinda raged when he told me that...
Ah well. Tried talking to her about it but she just got depressed really quickly. Cant really blame her... Will just have to see what happens.
Thats the thing, I have. They invited me over for new years but I politely declined since I had stuff planned already with my friends. Then it was her step-moms birthday, and she invited me over again. So I went and met all of the family - everything went great. The next day they apparently even told her that they really like me. I then met her dad a couple of times and we ended up chatting for like an hour each time. I am a good guy generally so I didnt even have to put on the fake manners and pretend to be someone I am not... He even acknowledged that and compared me to his step-daughters boyfriend who was a complete jerk apparently and really disliked him.
But all of that to no avail...
I am 19 she is 17. The strict schedule is due to them having high expectations from her academically. She wants to do good as well and go into medicine which I am completely fine with and support her. It would be really selfish and dumb for me to expect her to start putting her education on hold just to come out and see me. The problem is that the little free time we do have is so restricted... Its usually pissing it down outside since this is UK after all, and because she isnt allowed to come over we cant even meet then. Now they want her to get a job as well and pretty much work her ass off 7 days a week without any rest or leisure time.
I dont get it. Really dont.
I am not expecting her to disobey the rules for me.
My girlfriend has the WORST dad imaginable - straight from the funny meme comics. Not even a "troll" though, just way overprotective and restrictive.
1) My house is strictly out of bounds. She is not allowed to come over.
2) Weekdays after college she is to go home straight away. (By 6 pretty much)
3) Weekends she is to be home by 8.
I wanted to do something for valentines day - planned asking her dad if she can come over for a movie even for a couple of hours, if not then we would go to the cinema.
I didnt see him in person for the past few days and she thought me calling him would be awkward and weird, so she asked instead. Well basically she cant come over and has to be home by 7:30! What the actual ****... So now we cant even go to the cinema.
I already only see her twice a week - Thursdays during her 3 hour long gap between lessons and on Saturdays. However, I will have to start going to college during Thursdays soon again and they are forcing her to find a weekend job. Goodnight sweet relationship...
I feel so freaking down right now... This girl is literally perfect and is everything I wanted but everyday I am finding it harder and harder to see how this is going to work out in the future if it continues like this. Its downright pathetic...
Girlfriend dragged me to see The Impossible last night. Glad that she did. Amazing movie. Half of the cinema was sobbing and I am not ashamed to say that one specific part also got me close to the edge.
Wonder how this will work out with the new consoles and stuff if we are to expect PS4 / Xbox 720/Next to be released this holiday season. If the game is going to be for the older systems, it could kinda screw over the sales in the longer run.