Since you are drunk, its better to be blunt (its not like you can punch me
). Basically, there is no friendzoning going on. If there is anything at all, its that she is showing you stuff and you're turning HER down, not the other way around. But I doubt it is even that.
Basically, you need to find that ball sack of yours, and find where the heck your balls are in them, and then you need to go and confront her about it.
Klutch: Bus and train isn't that popular/efficient here, however he does live in NJ so it may be different there.