Some people have different relationships with there parents. When i was younger, i had the perfect life. A (what seemed like) happy family, a fantastic mother, father and my brothers and sister. Then my parents broke up, and i had to live with my mom while my dad found a new house. My mother never let me even visit my dad who lived about 30 miles away and i did'nt see him for 2 years. I kept in contact with him by sneaking to the library and e-mailing him every day. My mom used to be such a lovely woman, and i loved her dearly, but after my parents broke up, something changed with my mom and she was never the same as she was when i was a child.
Long story short, my dad eventually won the right for me to live with him. I said goodbye to my mom, and she said she would ring me once i get settled in with my old freinds again, who were excited to see me again after all this time. My mom never rang like she said she would, so i tryed ringing her but she changed her number. It soon became obvious that she did not want to see me again. It hurt at first, because we really got along together when i was a young kid, and we always used to go out together, but i eventually had to let it go. I have now not seen my mom for over 5 years, and if im honest, i rarely think about her. Sometimes, i wish i had a mother during these past few years, but im more than happy with my dad, and i love him dearly, especially after all he has done for me.
Alot of my freinds ask what i would do if my mom came to my house tomorow and asked for forgiveness, and i said i would ignore her and want her out of my life. I agree that everyone deserve's forgiveness, but after what my mom done to me and the way she treated me, she does not deserve the air she breathes imo. I dont dwell on the fact she left me, as i now have everything i need out of life. A job, a girlfreind, my dad and my brothers/sister. In my eyes, my mom coming back would'nt make it better, only worse. Luckily for me, the breakup's affect on me has not lasted long and i quickly went back to my normal self. The only thing it did change, is that it made me be a little more wary of people. I dont mean that in a "scared" way, but in a way that i "read" them more now, to try and gauge what kind of person they are. I think this is actually a good thing, as it makes me think whether i would like to get to know this person or not.