Meh, ya big girl.
IMO, it doesn't hurt till a couple of days later, then it hurts







And as for the location... visible when I'm wearing shorts and covered up when wearing jeans, works for me. For me it's not all about showing it off to others 24-7 so I don't mind it being covered up some of the time. It's not to make a statement about how cool I am so I don't need the reassurance of people seeing it and commenting on it all the time.
I still hit like a girl though. A very puny girl to be precise. I could do a meen suffocation by hugging people to submission though! I already have Victor terrified of it.

