Well I understand what your motives are, and they are pretty respectable.
The only problem is that LFS isn't one community, it's multiple communities (I wouldn't say camps, though
). Because what determines a community are shared idea. People who prefer to use LFS to drive slowly enjoying the sight of the tracks, other want to go fast, others want to drift their machines, so it is understandable that they have different motivations and this different expectations from the game.
There is no way of playing BETTER in absolute criteria than another, because tastes are subjective. However, where the argument takes place is when people want to change what LFS originally suit. Because of its nature, LFS is more suited to find people wishing to have a semi-pro motorsport (drift + race), and I think that since a couple of monthes I did not read any thread about a drift vs grip fight on a thread.
However, the problem with cruising is that it will always be a derivated gameplay from the original idea. Therefore, it can be understood that cruise-oriented features (police cars, sirens, cities, countries, etc) will be impossible to implement EXCEPT if they are something to do with motorsports...
About the demo users, it gets annoying when they ask for some more, and you can understand that...
And the crackers it's pretty obvious as well... A guy who doesn't pay for LFS can spread the software up, resulting in no income for the devs over the long run, resulting in no more cash to maintain the master servers up, and no more cash to improve the game
So you can understand why people are pretty upset about it !