I apologized two times for this, one time on the server and the second time here in the forums.
I cant really understand why you're taking this so serious. Yes I did a mistake with joining the server too early, I forgot that the qualifying was still running, but to penalize the whole team for that (actually Joe didnt chat any time) is a bit too hard.
You could give them their fastest lap back and I wont start in the race, because they didnt do anything wrong.
And people who insult you on the server are going to get unbanned for the race without any further penalties, imo this is much worse than a chat (in the wrong session btw)