I strongly suspect there isn't. I ve never seen anyone with any experience put those arguments forward. Infact the only times I heard that "above me/beneath me" crap was at school from virgins with no hope.
um, Walkmans were really expensive and quite rare back in my school days... Infact that reminds me of a story:
I decided to get a Walkman for my girlfriend at the times birthday, I got quite an expensive Sony one for her, and spoke for quite a while to the salesman before he took my money so he knew it was for someone special. I gave her the Walkman and thought no more of it until a few days later I visited her at her house and who should answer the door... Said salesman was her dad! Which left me a little uncomfortable asking his daughter, who'd just got a brand new Walkman, out to ... play. That was my first ever meet the parents experience.
And oddly enough I still have the pewter tankard she bought me - I found it at my parents house last week and bought it home.
she's legal for me though.... i would have done her if i didnt have my own gf in the first place. ( no, wont show u pics of her for now, i rather keep them for myself for the time she's travelling)