So after you'd been stabbed and robbed, you'd walk in the same place with your handbag on show soon after? (bearing in mind you are a woman in this diarama).
how can you compare being raped with being stabbed or robbed? and how you would cope with all three would be completely different.
poor attempt imo.
continue please.......
You can compare anything with anything, the result is the same, you are left shocked and violated, and in both cases probably in physical pain, how can you NOT compare the two? No two things are the same, if you live your life saying that then the word compare can be thrown from your mental dictionary. To compare you HAVE to have two different things, that is the point of comparisson.....
You also need to realize that everyone deals with things differently. Some poeple are open, some people are quiet. That's the awesome part of human psychology is that every person deals with every situation differently. Sure there are similaritys, but no person will ever act the exact same because everyone has a different emotional response.
The only thing that seems consistent to me is the irrationality of the way women react to it, and the common trait of self-blame - which I believe is manifested from the social stigmas of rape victims that still linger in our society, even today the excuse "she was asking for it. Dressing provocatively" is still used as a defence in court, and it's so wrong.
As for this specific case, which the accuser here is suggesting Dustin is lying about having had sex: Does it really matter?
Besides he's not a kid, youngish but almost double the age that some folk become sexually active. It's not that hard to imagine, albeit somewhat unpleasant visually as one does so.
Dustin does talk a lot of rubbish to deliberately provoke a reaction, he likes confrontation and is his presence in a forum thread can be a bit like a testosterone charged rabbit sucking aphrodisiac laced amphetamines in a field full of single lush available female prostitute rabbits.
That said when he isn't trolling he's actually an ok guy, and if you can accept his sense of humour for the little quirky Canadian thing that it is, then it's not hard to imagine somebody with a similarly quirky sense of humour liking him. Not me, I don't find him funny, but i've met enough civil servants to know that there are people out there capable of finding his way of looking at things amusing, so if we factor out his forum personality, it suddenly isn't so hard to imagine him having a girlfriend and getting laid.
And now that that mental image is in your head i'm going to finish this post before mental image Dustin achieves the O face.
Yes. You can get stabbed and robbed anywhere. Walking down the same street does not guarantee a recurrance and neither should you live your life in the paranoia of it happening again: There is prudence, and there is the kind of over cautious zealotry that comes with smoking too much cannabis.
Did you read The Game? Forgetting for a second what it's about, an instruction manual on how to pickup girls, it's a great read. I had a lot of fun reading it and it was the only book I've ever read that I read in a week (for it's length). Not to mention that I've picked up more the a few ladies using this book. You'll be surprised how well Kinos, Negs and things like that work. I have a girlfriend but I still practice this from time to time on people I meet. You walk away with quite a few numbers, even if 'their' guy is standing right there.
It's ok, he's on my facebook too ... He is not crazy stalker or anything ... Atleast he has not showed up at my house.
But speaking generally in a scenario where a negetive outcome occurs the human regresses negetively and paranoid. I am pretty sure 99.9% of women after being sexually violated, will take a good few months, maybe even years to build up the confidence to allow sex to take place again, the 0.1% are crack whores. Obviously.
proof or bullshit. try not to pull figures out of your arse. are you saying that the lady Dustin was talking about is a crack whore?
i've noticed you like to exaggerate the truth to help you make your point. maybe try a different tactic?