just for sake of comparison,
I sometimes get one or two servers under 100
at the bottom of the list, a few start to creep over 200 and I've avoided those almost always.
I don't actually notice any lag when in-game. Although.. if someone enters or leaves pit-screen during a race, I get a half-second lag spike usually. (long enough for the wheel to lose force momentarily)
Notice in the BF1 this means insta-spin in 90% of the cases
However, have to say that I stay connected, and almost always on-track and in the race. Thanks Scawen!