I think we'd all agree that they need balancing, but I think slowing down the FXO is the way to do it. More weight and less tyre will get us close to the desired effect. GTT is about right, and RB4 isn't too far off it (in the right hands), maybe a "tad" less weight. Really hard to be specific without trying things and seeing if they work.
Remember, Jamexing, that in the sprint style races which are very popular online with the TBO class RB4 and GTT will always have a significant advantage off the start line, over the FXO. With laptimes for each of these cars being as they are, the start advantage is still a small reason to choose the "slower" cars (reasons beside them being way more fun I mean). Make FXO the slower car, and there's no reason to pick it at all. No offense here, but your online experience with these cars is limited, I'm surprised you're so worked up about this subject.
Remember, Jamexing, that in the sprint style races which are very popular online with the TBO class RB4 and GTT will always have a significant advantage off the start line, over the FXO. With laptimes for each of these cars being as they are, the start advantage is still a small reason to choose the "slower" cars (reasons beside them being way more fun I mean). Make FXO the slower car, and there's no reason to pick it at all. No offense here, but your online experience with these cars is limited, I'm surprised you're so worked up about this subject.