That whent fast?
What I mean, how long is it since you two broke up?
Or well, anyway, congratulation with a date, better than what I managed ;p
Actually I have kind of a situation on the work, I think the one of the woman employers are sexually harasing me (rofl I am not kidding). She allways flirts and smacks my ass when I pass her desc. She is ugly as ****, so I do not like her, but at same time I am thinking - well who ****ing cares, lets sex?
Broke up with her around the 16th of January, give or take a few days. I can't really remember
Not jumping into a relationship with this new girl, I'm nowhere near over the ex, ans she's just come out of one as well, plus I think pretty highly of her as she's been a friend for years. Just going to see what happens and see where it leads. Not rushing anything
As I said, not looking for anything serious, this chick is in the same deal I am, and a good friend of mine. Just going to see where things go, not rushing into anything haha
My girlfriend has the WORST dad imaginable - straight from the funny meme comics. Not even a "troll" though, just way overprotective and restrictive.
1) My house is strictly out of bounds. She is not allowed to come over.
2) Weekdays after college she is to go home straight away. (By 6 pretty much)
3) Weekends she is to be home by 8.
I wanted to do something for valentines day - planned asking her dad if she can come over for a movie even for a couple of hours, if not then we would go to the cinema.
I didnt see him in person for the past few days and she thought me calling him would be awkward and weird, so she asked instead. Well basically she cant come over and has to be home by 7:30! What the actual ****... So now we cant even go to the cinema.
I already only see her twice a week - Thursdays during her 3 hour long gap between lessons and on Saturdays. However, I will have to start going to college during Thursdays soon again and they are forcing her to find a weekend job. Goodnight sweet relationship...
I feel so freaking down right now... This girl is literally perfect and is everything I wanted but everyday I am finding it harder and harder to see how this is going to work out in the future if it continues like this. Its downright pathetic...
well, go speak with her dad for a bit, become friends with him and he'll be less of a dick. right now he might think that you are trying to steal his little baby.
thats how i did with my gf's parents. they even invited me for christmas and new years lol..
how old are you anyway? because that is some strict schedule to go back home lol.
Thats the thing, I have. They invited me over for new years but I politely declined since I had stuff planned already with my friends. Then it was her step-moms birthday, and she invited me over again. So I went and met all of the family - everything went great. The next day they apparently even told her that they really like me. I then met her dad a couple of times and we ended up chatting for like an hour each time. I am a good guy generally so I didnt even have to put on the fake manners and pretend to be someone I am not... He even acknowledged that and compared me to his step-daughters boyfriend who was a complete jerk apparently and really disliked him.
But all of that to no avail...
I am 19 she is 17. The strict schedule is due to them having high expectations from her academically. She wants to do good as well and go into medicine which I am completely fine with and support her. It would be really selfish and dumb for me to expect her to start putting her education on hold just to come out and see me. The problem is that the little free time we do have is so restricted... Its usually pissing it down outside since this is UK after all, and because she isnt allowed to come over we cant even meet then. Now they want her to get a job as well and pretty much work her ass off 7 days a week without any rest or leisure time.
I dont get it. Really dont.
I am not expecting her to disobey the rules for me.
But we're all expecting her to do it for her own sake. Her dad is just a massive cock block, and he knows it, she knows it, and you know it. Eventually he's just gonna push her away, they are gonna fight and she's gonna wanna place to stay, and then you can get your ding dong into some action for once.
She's 17 and has to be home by 6. She shouldn't be disobeying the rules for you, she should be disobeying the rules for her. That's insane. If I had to be home by 6 when I was 17 I would have never gone home. Her parents are, quite literally, trying to prevent her from having a life.
As I said, the home by 6 thing is pressured from the idea that she has to do well in college, but still... I agree, its kinda dumb. I sometimes feel like he sees me as some guy who just de-rails all the girls and leads them on the wrong roads. He is both disrespecting me in some ways and shows that he has no trust whatsoever in his daughter. I know her, she is too smart to be led along.
He also mentioned to her how she shouldn't get too attached to me because she is "definitely not my first girlfriend" (which is true) but has no significance in any way. Kinda raged when he told me that...
Ah well. Tried talking to her about it but she just got depressed really quickly. Cant really blame her... Will just have to see what happens.
When I was 17 the earliest I got back home from college was 11.30pm. And I'm not even a party type guy, it's just that my classes always ended really late!
Well I'm ugly too, and no-one wants to rape me either, and I too haven't gone home before midnight a single time in my life, but that won't stop (over)protective parents from protecting their attractive and female offsprings. It's a bit different situation.
How many times I couldn't hang out with females because of their parents, it's just scary. It's not my fault I looks like a rapist.