In the passed 3-4 days I have not been able to see my server on the connection list.. I know its there to everyone else but to me I cannot see it.

I also had tried using the find a racer method and it had shown me that the server was online and I could attempt to join it. but it would go into loading then stop at the track and say " did not receive track info " and kicks me back to the game server connection list.

My connection doesnt seem to be an issue. I have also turned off my firewalls and still no luck. alot of other servers show up I dont suppose its all of them as it shows around 400 - 500+ servers in total and then theres like 100 or so no replies.. Im guessing my server is one of those but why and how can I fix this issue. would love to hear back here is my speed test:

If others are able to join your server and you aren't, that probably mean your router is not allowing connections back to itself.
Anyway there is still way around it, you can join your server by Join Specific Server -> local network and than enter IP and port. If server is hosted on same PC use 127.0.0.1 for IP.