I have never once had a bad encounter on any Oval or Drift server, not once. Everyone i have chatted to while racing / drifting (more like trying to) has been very helpfull and mature. Saying sorry if they make a mistake and being nice when i say sorry to them, instead of going "WTF u c*nt, learn to race etc etc etc"
City Driving CnR servers piss me right off to no end. Lets see shall we:
Rules are their are two speed limits, something like 30 for small roads and 55 for the highway, no drifting, speeding, crashing etc etc. But, if everyone was to do exactly what the rules say, wouldn't that make it a dull server? So i go on, break a rule and dont stop when a police player is chasing me, then i get a kick / ban vote against me because i didn't stop! Tell me if thats silly or not? Because in my eyes, them sort of rules are begging to be broken, if they arent, you might as well stick AI on their and chase them down.