Regarding the choice of tires, I tested your E21 Gr.5 with R2s. You're right. R2s are better for the default configuration. The grip on the track is a little strong but the weight influence is much better. Feelings are better too. The ride is more subtle and realistic.
Indeed the R3s do not heat up (30 laps on Aston Cadet Rev against FXO & XR GTR and still in the blue) and slide too much in tight turns. This has the effect of reducing the effect of mass transfers. I don't know if what I'm saying is clear (bad English) but the wheels "lift" less when pitching and you feel the weight of the car less than with the R2s.
Indeed the R3s do not heat up (30 laps on Aston Cadet Rev against FXO & XR GTR and still in the blue) and slide too much in tight turns. This has the effect of reducing the effect of mass transfers. I don't know if what I'm saying is clear (bad English) but the wheels "lift" less when pitching and you feel the weight of the car less than with the R2s.