No panic!
I just took one big step back from the thread and thought for a bit, that's all
I know how it is.. you have a burning desire to make a point, and the point you want to make is a good one. It's difficult to resist making that point, even though you know the response will be just as strong as yours. That's why I deleted the thread. Not because anyone was wrong, but because everyone was right. It's just that they were also harsh and/or angry. It's all good now