Ajp, Aces High is made by devs who care for their costumer service at least as much as Scawen & co. If you mail, or even call them (they talk to just about anyone about anything completely openly, in my experience and everyone else's I've heard of) explaining your situation, they'll tell you what they can do to help you out.
I've subbed since 2000. What's your ingame (not login) ID?
I think, at worst, you'll have to give them a call, or email them each time you want your account reactivated. I started playing again after 2 years, and got my old account the day after I emailed about it.
The only thing you might gripe about is that each time you do this, your perk points reset, although I'm not sure if that'll be your case too.
If you need help with the learning curve, want to practice ACM or gunnery on a target, or just need answers to any questions, you can look me up and I'll help you out.
There's
events organized a few times a week (with anything from 50 to 300+ participants), and you can usually find someone to practice with in the dueling or training arena.. there are also trainers you can schedule appointments with.
Another thing you should look up are the custom sounds. Some of them are very corny (as if bootlegged right off 1950s movies), but if you sort through all of them, you'll most likely find a combination that doesn't make you laugh too hard..
And don't take the egomaniacs too seriously. They can be quite vocal, but they're a tiny fractional percentage of the total player population.
And keep your volume knob within reach.. some of the players come through extremely squeaky on the radio