At first, just get good friends, peoples that you know they won't leave for team each time they are angry. Build your team slowly, and pick your members wisely, don't recruit like we can see so often here; "Major recruting! Any noob welcomed!". Look on racing servers, when you see a good racer (Without a tag thought...), invite him, and he might accept. don't try to be too strict at first, and rules are for kids IMO...