Sorry for your loss mate.
Missed you on MSN earlier, ping me back if you want to chat.

There's nothing to help you stop feeling lost and empty apart from time, just try and remember the good times you had together.

RIP Fangs friend, at least the suffering is over now.

My condolences. I am very sorry to hear about something like this. I hope you get through this ok.

That's just tragic, no other word for it. Let the tears flow, there's nothing to be ashamed of about crying.

Sorry to hear
Condolences from me and my GF sitting next to me.
No one should ever deserve to experience things like this, tho it`s life it`s horrible and I hope you have people you can talk to and lean on

After talking to Scott for a bit, I wish that I would have taken the chance a few months ago when he first told me about this girl (Angelina) and I would have asked for her MSN address then. At first I didn't really know how to react, and still don't, but it's awful that anyone has to die so young, and miss out on so many things in life. Heck, it almost makes you wish you could give up your own life so someone else can continue theirs.

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Heck, it almost makes you wish you could give up your own life so someone else can continue theirs.

Dieing is the easy part, it's the people left behind i feel more sorry for.

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Dieing is the easy part, it's the people left behind i feel more sorry for.

Thats true

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Basically, you don't.
You scream and cry and complain to the world in general and bury your head in a pillow and scream in rage until the day when you wake up and it doesn't hurt as much. Then you go on about your life the only way you can - one day at a time.

You can't and shouldn't hold back grief, because it will eventually catch up with you and be much worse when it does.

I think this is the best advice I have ever seen. It's all true, I tried hiding grief and it just eats away at you.

The absloute worst part I found was at my brothers funeral, because we was on the front row for what ever reason, every time we had to stand you'd just see the name plate on the coffin and it'd just sink in how real it was. That was hard to get through, so take a close friend with you if you can, because their support is what will help you through.

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Dieing is the easy part, it's the people left behind i feel more sorry for.

Or the debt left behind :/
Granddads and credit cars... stamp it out before its too late.. PLEASE

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Or the debt left behind :/
Granddads and credit cars... stamp it out before its too late.. PLEASE

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Stop being so stupid in your posts please.

DK

i know how you feel,
i lost my doggy, she died from cancer, its not totally the same, but allmost
its very hard...
i just read the died...
i'm very sorry...
she is now with god, but still in our heart.
rest in peace...

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Stop being so stupid in your posts please.

DK

Stupid? So me telling the truth is stupid? Yea, says alot.
My grandfather is almost dead, and is leaving my grandmother with alot of debt.
Im warning people. Its not a good way to die.

my uncle died and i and my family paid the Hole expense to get him buried , but its a small price to pay to show your respect to that loved one who died.

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Stupid? So me telling the truth is stupid? Yea, says alot.
My grandfather is almost dead, and is leaving my grandmother with alot of debt.
Im warning people. Its not a good way to die.

I meant the flippant (way I saw it) remarks about money.

DK

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my uncle died and i and my family paid the Hole expense to get him buried , but its a small price to pay to show your respect to that loved one who died.

Thats not what i was talking about, it was the fact hes spent money on god only knows what (porn probobly) and my grandmother is going to be in alot of debt.

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I meant the flippant (way I saw it) remarks about money.

DK

I don't understand, you seemed to get offended by it initially but i don't understand, its not relevant to your circumstance, i just thought reletive to post, because seriously.. Just don't hesitate to read other family members mail once in a while.. Its worth it, before its too late, i mean, hes gonna die in debt.. it just doesn't look or feel right

IMO it's not right to go through somebody else's mail unless they request you to.

DK

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IMO it's not right to go through somebody else's mail unless they request you to.

DK

Yes, its common sense to think that but if your family members are acting strange, or looking stressed, and are old enough to get into this kind of situation, im not saying OPEN unopened mail, im just saying go through the stuff thats in the pile.. I mean, you would have to have a strong feeling that there was financial problems to do that but if it happens and you knew you could of got rid of it along time ago, it hits you, especially when the family member in question doesn't have much long to go So its not possible to redeem them.

Stop turning this thread into a pubilic debate.R.I.P fang's mate you were lucky to have a caring friend like Fang.

R.I.P and may you have gone to a better place

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Stop turning this thread into a pubilic debate.R.I.P fang's mate you were lucky to have a caring friend like Fang.

True

R.I.P fang`s mate.
Hope you have people to speak with in this hard time.