Pretty graphs, AndroidXP. Why not make use of the nice skidpad LFS has to collect data instead?
People probably shouldn't use the term "grip" as a substitute for "friction coefficient." It adds to the confusion for most people because most folks consider grip to be the same thing as force. Racers are in an endless quest to "find more grip." Whether that be through raising the friction coefficient of the tires by changing air pressure or through increasing downforce (reducing friction coefficient), they call that increasing grip since either way you get more force at the tires.
Grip = force in my book, although I don't know if there's an actual SAE definition to the contrary.
Nothing ever struck me as odd about the load sensitivity in LFS, even with all the playing on the skidpad I do. If there was no load sensitivity, most of the typical chassis tuning like ARB changes wouldn't do anything, or perhaps do the opposite of what happens in reality in some cases.
Increasing load sensitivity should generally tend to increase understeer when off throttle, and increase oversteer when on it.