Took awhile to read this, But i deffinitly Agree! I think that i grew up how i am, and to tell you the truth i am not as "gangsta" (or w/e you want to call it) as i used to be i have calmed down a little bit! But i didnt do it to change for people , just kinda is happening! And well there are still black guys where i live but they are kinda, good people rather then the "hoodlums" (or w/e you want to call it) that i was raised with! So i am changing SLOWLY , very slowoy becuase i do notice it but i let it happen just not so quick! But i hope his post says a lot to you all!