The problem here I think is that you do that sort of thing with guys you know well, not with people you don't
What alot don't realise is that here down under most racers, even the best, fool around alot more than most other places
it's not that Aussies don't take racing serious, they are very competitive and serious in an out and out race. But they also enjoy fooling around alot
If you join a few Aussie servers you will see this very quickely
but one thing you will also see is that everyone respects each other as well