How old are you? You will eventually grow up and understand. But you said you are in LA!!!!! Now, when I was 20, sure I did my fair share of driving fast, racing my buddies, etc. Back then I didn't have racing sims to take it to. BUT, I also live way out in the middle of nowhere. In fact, even at a high rate of speed, it still would take us almost an hour just to reach the middle of nowhere. We are lucky to see a handful of cars in a 40 mile stretch. Of course, I am now 33 with a wife and 2 lovely daughters, a house payment, car payment, no longer have a car capable of high speed, and responsiblilities. If you make it through to an older age driving like that in LA with all the traffic, then you will realize how stupid you were. I still drive "fast", but "fast" is now considerably slower than what "fast" was in the younger days.
Sure my buds and I would race out on the road, out in the middle of nowhere where there wasn't any traffic. But we drove fast together and didn't, as you say, "every time I go out to drive I always end up showing off on how great a driver I am." or "race allot of other people when they drive". When my buddies and I got together, it wasn't "racing" as in door to door, setting up a pass coming off the exit, etc. It was more just following each other as we drove fast. Again, this was out in the boonies where there isn't any traffic. There is a big difference in "racing" and driving "fast" out in public. I have no problem with people driving fast out on the roads, driving fast isn't what causes accidents, at least out where I live where there's no traffic. It's the idiots that drive like this guy says, enticing other's to truely race and "showing off" how good of a driver they are when a few miles down the road they show off actually how unskilled of a driver they are when their car is wrapped around a tree or something.
Like I said, back then we didn't have PC racing sims to take it out on. Unfortunately, now we do and some people think, "I can do it on the PC, I can do it on the road", which isn't the case.