I hop on a server, have a fun time.. most of the time.
Sometimes i get taken out, woppdido, if it was on purpose, ill get fustrated and get over it, if the fella is a smartass or acting silly, i may report, or just forget about him and pass him later on and leave him for dead. Sometimes i even take out afew people on accident, no problem.
But the frustrating part, and the meaning of this thread.
If someone takes out someone, or specifically, me, the person will tend to cop, "You stupid noob, thats bullsh*t!", "Learn to drive".. and you think to yourself, hang on.. isnt that some form of harassment and insult. and you think, report the bloke, get him banned.. and you refrain, and just simply try to talk to the guy and sort it out. You then later watch the replay and find out you didnt hit him, someone else did.
Earlier today, (YES IM SICK) i was on Race 1 and lights went green, i was at the back of the grid and slowed down alot, out of no where i sneeze, and the wheel goes everywhere, i t-bone a driver and he gets taken out. I feel bad, no excuses, i took him out, my fault 100%. I apologize and let him through and he smiles meaning its all good, i explained my incident even though there was no need to as i was still at fault.
5sec later i cop a, "you bloddy noob, cant i get through t1 without having a noob from the 7th row take me out". Not knowing anything, i said look, sorry, i didnt know i hit you too.. And i realized to myself, this is my first race on this server since i connected, my first turn and mistake.. how am i a noob for making an error? Why do i deserve to cop bull crap from a better driver (if not), driver just because i made an error. Is Senna a noob? No!
I said those words roughly to him, and that i feel like reporting him as i felt offended and insulted. I told him im going to watch the replay, turns out, someone else took him out. After i said report, its as if he went from agro, to nice and sorry telling me he is in the wrong, which he is. I wasn't threatening him and i wouldn't report him, he seems like a regular and im not that kind of person unless it gets out of hand, i also understand why he overreacted and had a go at me. Im taken out by randoms all the time for no reason.
Still, thats just one example, i cop it alot and i have been threatened to be banned from people in the BNJ servers. I took one person out one time and coped a USE YOUR BRAKES YOU NOOB.. and apologized, he said "happens again, i'l report you." Once again, i was hit in the rear and went flying into the same guy. He went off his nut ready to report me. He said he will and hes going to watch the replay to make sure everything is for sure. He came back on saying "ok i wont ban you, because it was once."
I think there is way too much aggression on the servers these days, this ain't million dollar F1 if you crash it will cost. If there isn't noobs, theres people who name you one. I don't want to start reports, but it gets very frustrating, and i want to next time it happens.
Is this a form of harassment or insult? Or do i have to shut up and quit whining?
Thanks.
Sometimes i get taken out, woppdido, if it was on purpose, ill get fustrated and get over it, if the fella is a smartass or acting silly, i may report, or just forget about him and pass him later on and leave him for dead. Sometimes i even take out afew people on accident, no problem.
But the frustrating part, and the meaning of this thread.
If someone takes out someone, or specifically, me, the person will tend to cop, "You stupid noob, thats bullsh*t!", "Learn to drive".. and you think to yourself, hang on.. isnt that some form of harassment and insult. and you think, report the bloke, get him banned.. and you refrain, and just simply try to talk to the guy and sort it out. You then later watch the replay and find out you didnt hit him, someone else did.
Earlier today, (YES IM SICK) i was on Race 1 and lights went green, i was at the back of the grid and slowed down alot, out of no where i sneeze, and the wheel goes everywhere, i t-bone a driver and he gets taken out. I feel bad, no excuses, i took him out, my fault 100%. I apologize and let him through and he smiles meaning its all good, i explained my incident even though there was no need to as i was still at fault.
5sec later i cop a, "you bloddy noob, cant i get through t1 without having a noob from the 7th row take me out". Not knowing anything, i said look, sorry, i didnt know i hit you too.. And i realized to myself, this is my first race on this server since i connected, my first turn and mistake.. how am i a noob for making an error? Why do i deserve to cop bull crap from a better driver (if not), driver just because i made an error. Is Senna a noob? No!
I said those words roughly to him, and that i feel like reporting him as i felt offended and insulted. I told him im going to watch the replay, turns out, someone else took him out. After i said report, its as if he went from agro, to nice and sorry telling me he is in the wrong, which he is. I wasn't threatening him and i wouldn't report him, he seems like a regular and im not that kind of person unless it gets out of hand, i also understand why he overreacted and had a go at me. Im taken out by randoms all the time for no reason.
Still, thats just one example, i cop it alot and i have been threatened to be banned from people in the BNJ servers. I took one person out one time and coped a USE YOUR BRAKES YOU NOOB.. and apologized, he said "happens again, i'l report you." Once again, i was hit in the rear and went flying into the same guy. He went off his nut ready to report me. He said he will and hes going to watch the replay to make sure everything is for sure. He came back on saying "ok i wont ban you, because it was once."
I think there is way too much aggression on the servers these days, this ain't million dollar F1 if you crash it will cost. If there isn't noobs, theres people who name you one. I don't want to start reports, but it gets very frustrating, and i want to next time it happens.
Is this a form of harassment or insult? Or do i have to shut up and quit whining?
Thanks.