Some more helpful posts, but alot of idiotic ones as well. Some of you people need to grow up. This is a serious situation and not a joke for you to come and get a laugh out of. To the guy who likes to see them cut, I suggest you go jump of a large bridge, with railroad tracks at the bottom.
As I stated before I cant talk to her mother. She thinks I'm a threat which is why I am not supposed to be seeing her. Cooking and cleaning is not a bad thing, but to those of you who said that what she is doing is ok, if you have kids, go tell them to cook your meals, clean your house until its spotless and don't let them stop ever! It is not illegal for us to be dating, and as for sexual matters weather or not it happens is not a part of this thread and never has been.
This is a tough situation, one that I dont see a way out of. It pretty much looks like lose-lose from here and we may just have to ride it out until shes 18. I am going to be joining the army soon, which should make me veiwed with a little more respect in a jurys eyes and I hope will help with this situation.
And the video camera, this is something we are looking into right now. Not so she can tape her mother, but so she can document things like when shes home alone, with nothing to eat and not knowing where anyone is, or when they will be back. Or times in the same situation with everyone gone except shes locked outside of the house in 16 degree weather with no idea where they are, where to reach them or when they will be back. By they I mean her grandpa, who she also lives with. He dosent really see whats going on there because hes 77 years old and still thinks its the way it was in the 1940s when kids did do alot of the work and werent treated great at all and nobody cared.