My question is do you set a max frame rate when playing online? And will this help in anyway. I keep getting the lost connection to server message and get disconnected. The thing is my connection bars are merrilly bouncing away in the bottom left corner and then all of a sudden BAM I'm dissconnected. Does frames per second have anything what so ever to do with this?

FPS,frames per second, is graphics related and has nothing to do with your internet connection.