OK,I searched and did not find anything similar to what I have in mind, So here it goes. The type of women you like, what effects your perception on a beautiful women? Your taste is unique and only you understand it, weather you only like a women depending on her looks and features or you only care about personality..

So the question is what type of women do you like?


I'll start of by saying in my eyes, Looks is not a final decision, nor does it bother me, although like any other man, Id love to have a beautiful women by my side, I would personally much rather a women that is truly personality matched to me. I have dated a "big" girl several times. I am 150lbs (or so) and I am criticized for this often, I tell my freinds that size nor looks mater if you truly want to be happy with the person you are in a relationship with.

Of course If a women that meshed well with me and was beautiful I would love her, although if she was a women with some "curves" and other men where afriad to approach her, I would have no care and still approach her.

Now dont get me wrong, I love beautiful women as much as the rest of you I just simply want to know why "US" as men are very shallow and take beauty as the single and only identifier of women?

(**This is in no way ment to offend anyone nor is it ment to make me look better, simply a observation I have relized over the course of my life.**)

Well, looks do nothing but add lust, to me.

Although I would have to think twice it this woman was ugly or overly fat. I have no problem with chubby women or women who aren't "stunnas".

As far as the complete package would go, I'd say it's about 70% personality, and 30% looks. I wouldn't touch an incredibly ugly woman, even if he personality was great. Just as I wouldn't touch a beautiful woman if her personality was terrible.

I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, tbh. It's not a final decision, and it doesn't bother me, up to a point.

And frankly, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Yes, I mean I have my points, But for the most part, Looks are irrelevant!

It's all very "personal to you". Some people wouldn't go near a girl unless she was "hot", and it's a shame. Others have no limits, and frankly (I know I sound mean here), could have gotten better.

Looks are just the first attraction, and if you've had a bad experience or 2 with girlfriends in the past as I have then you look at things differently. Put simply even those bursting with personality can be somewhat of an untrustworthy person which will cheat come some materialistic qualities in some other guy. Women can be very shallow too you know. Nevermind my rambling though.

For me right now, going for girls with looks initially, has only landed me in trouble and heartbreak. I'm not saying I'll go for girls that I don't find attractive, but I certain think personality is key.

Girls are just a pain in the behind I could do without. Especially annoying scene kids that are attracted to you for about a week then go for someone else because they listen to different music and wear guyliner.

As for looks, anybody who is so thin you can see their ribs is just nasty.

Worryingly, I realised a while ago that love and lust are different things, and realised that I loved nobody.

Alternative.
Coloured hair, dark clothes, piercings, tats etc

not a fan of your plastic blonde crap.

Stick thin is also a major turn off, i like a girl who has curves (No, not fat, CURVES you idiot. i hate people who call fat girls curvey. Curvey is a girl who has a womanly body, that doesnt look like a 10yo boy)

personality is also a big part, and it just so happens i like the personality that usually comes with the fashion

win/win for me

OK let's put it this way

what would you rather have

1. A Ferrari Enzo for a month until it breaks

2. A reliable standard VW Golf for a year

think about it

Oh god, this is what you have been waiting for eh? Now you are going to hear the fairlytales of the tankwoman and nut cracker? Or even the buldozer.

NO, you canot have it, I will not tell them, because I have issues myself trying to dream clear after it...


Well, enough jokes and I'll head back on topic, about ladies..and what do I like?

Hmm, I think, the first thing I notice with the girl is their face. I know it sounds really shallow, but that's just as a first thing I notice, and not something that is the most important part of the whole thing. Wel, after I have either liked, or not liked their face, I usually still tend to notice, or try to get a opinion from them, basically from ANYTHING. I want them to speak, to chat, to just, well be themself. If you just starts a normal conversation it's doomed to just be the standar "what do you like, where do you live blabla" conversations, that works too, but at same time can be borring. I usually asks them some funny nonsence, just to see how they react.

If they reply short and with a dull answer I'll probally skip them, even if they might look great. I have no interest in trying with a girl that got no sence of humor, or are one of these "I am too serious to have a laugh" attitute. I much rather continue on with, what can be called "not a so good looking girl" witch has own opinions and humor, than a really great looking but dull lady. Well, with alcho-LOL I usually mix it all up, and takes whatever offers me meat, but enough of that, we're talking about those times where I'm actually sober and have a clear mind. (if you look aside all my others issues :hide:

Then, after I have watched their face, and tried to get a little hold on what the living **** happens in their messed brains, I start looking on their other "parts". Oh god, I just love long legs. I don't know, but long legs are just great, and if a girl got long and nice legs and a cute face, well then it's Alcho-LOL + dong right away for sure. Neverthless, I care a little, but not too much about their overal "shape". I am not talking curves or anything, but generally body build.
For me it can tell somebody about the person aswell, because you know you won't get the tank woman to join you for a day in the mountain, or join for a little jog trip togheter, while the "too athletic one" will just give you bad confidence... it usually ends up with something between. A normal sized woman.. some kilos up or down, who cares, there are more things important than that, but still, I like them between as stated before, and often their personality is more likable too. Not too serious, not too lazy, just perfectly fine. (in my opinion of course, and god hope you don't got the same or this world soon will come to it's end).

WHEN, I then have, 1 - likes what I see, her face, 2 - enjoys her company, she actually HAS meanings and are not affraight to challenge you or joke with you in random discussions 3 - not important, but a BIG + if she looks normal (and mmmm has long legs) , then we are ready to take the next step.

And well, I am no DR phill or anything other, usually alcho-LOL and mr "I-care" alter personality helps me get what I want and then FU3 apewoman and then on I go to a other adventure..

No..well , on serious note, if I have liked what I hear, and likes what I see (or if they are really interesting and match me well I don't care one single bit almost for their look, as long as I like their personality), then I'll start the normal conversations that HOPEFULLY leads somewhere I want them to go. Of course 95% of them goes to hell, I usually ends up trying on engaged, married, lessbians or generally BUSSY womens, but sometimes (that means four times in my life rofl) things just sorts out, and things goes great.

There, now you know my opinion about love, womens and all that shit generally, hope you enjoyed reading because this is the actually shit I think lol.

Quote from Intrepid :

OK let's put it this way

what would you rather have

1. A Ferrari Enzo for a month until it brakes

2. A reliable standard VW Golf for a year

think about it

the Enzo handsdown.
and do not compare cars to women. Cars need love and attention

Quote from Intrepid :

OK let's put it this way

what would you rather have

1. A Ferrari Enzo for a month until it brakes

2. A reliable standard VW Golf for a year

think about it

You mean a Ferrari Enzo doesn't brake for the first month? Must be awfully dangerous to drive around then!

looks matter mostly, to me. Mainly beacuse i dont want any commitment and just having fun.

I'm particularly shallow, but it doesnt bother me a single bit.

Quote from Intrepid :

OK let's put it this way

what would you rather have

1. A Ferrari Enzo for a month until it breaks

2. A reliable standard VW Golf for a year

think about it

the enzo, without a doubt.

Quote from Intrepid :

OK let's put it this way

what would you rather have

1. A Ferrari Enzo for a month until it breaks

2. A reliable standard VW Golf for a year

think about it

I'll love you to remember this post in say 10-20 years when you've had a bit more experiance

Physical attraction is different for everyone, what YOU find attractive, someone else may not.

If YOU find someone attractive, thats all that matters.

Physical attraction starts the "chase", but ultimately, personality wins it.

Quote from danowat :

I'll love you to remember this post in say 10-20 years when you've had a bit more experiance

Physical attraction is different for everyone, what YOU find attractive, someone else may not.

If YOU find someone attractive, thats all that matters.

Physical attraction starts the "chase", but ultimately, personality wins it.

Wise words.

Alltho, you can just be drunk all the time, then the personality doesn't mean shit basically, but I would not recomment it.

Quote from danowat :

I'll love you to remember this post in say 10-20 years when you've had a bit more experiance

Physical attraction is different for everyone, what YOU find attractive, someone else may not.

If YOU find someone attractive, thats all that matters.

Physical attraction starts the "chase", but ultimately, personality wins it.

I asked a question. I did not add an opinion or answer that question. So how you can assume you know where I stand I do not know.

I have my own opinions on this but they would be wasted on the forum

TBH, Its an age thing, I think males are all a bit shallow when they are young, when "relationships" arent really on the radar, just a quick fumble here and there.

When you get to a certain age, and want to settle down with someone, you really don't want to have to handle a highly strung Enzo everyday for sure.

I guess I am lucky, I have a Golf that can be an Enzo too

Quote from Intrepid :

I asked a question. I did not add an opinion or answer that question. So how you can assume you know where I stand I do not know.

I think just asking the question leads to a decent assumption of your answer

Quote from danowat :

TBH, Its an age thing, I think males are all a bit shallow when they are young, when "relationships" arent really on the radar, just a quick fumble here and there.

When you get to a certain age, and want to settle down with someone, you really don't want to have to handle a highly strung Enzo everyday for sure.

I guess I am lucky, I have a Golf that can be an Enzo too

I do not fall into that "age thing" I am 18 (pretty young) and still would prefer the golf for a year type of relationship.....???

Well, that vary's from person to person. I much rather have the golf than the enzo tbh. (Tho alcho-LOL wants me to belive other)

TVE can't post in this thread. He likes young boys from the age of 16 up to 21.

Quote from greg_slideways :

I do not fall into that "age thing" I am 18 (pretty young) and still would prefer the golf for a year type of relationship.....???

Everyone is different, I know 35 year olds who are still complete man-whores

Quote from Intrepid :

OK let's put it this way

what would you rather have

1. A Ferrari Enzo for a month until it breaks

2. A reliable standard VW Golf for a year

think about it

Enzo.

Wild, kinky, fun in bed, push me to my limits kind of girls FTW

Quote from S14 DRIFT :

TVE can't post in this thread. He likes young boys from the age of 16 up to 21.

First hand experience?

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I wonder how many times you had to click the "Preview" button to get that alligned right

Nice Jakg