so the story is me and my friend want to play touge together so he created a lobby under the name nutsucci (terrible I know) it shows me the name but every time I press join (or go) it gives me a message saying connect timed out, I don't know if its mine or his internet or he has set it up wrong, so if someone could be nice enough to tell us what to do it would be appreciated! thank you

Ok so he's hosting.

Your friend needs to forward the ports on his router (open lfs server ports so everyone in the world can access them).

ok,we will try that now, how do we do this though (sorry were stupid at this stuff)

alright thank you guys, we can't find aplacations and gaming but we are going to look

Quote from kristofferandersen :

Ok so he's hosting.

Your friend needs to forward the ports on his router (open lfs server ports so everyone in the world can access them).

do you know how to access applications and gaming?