Wow 5haz you are either stupid or just plain ignorant.
The McLaren drivers were told to hold position via "fuel saving". I doubt that they got it so wrong on fuel tbh.
Lewis clarified this hold position message by asking if Button was going to pass him. Obviously looking to see whether it's a problem with his car or it's a coded message. Lewis understood it was a coded message but Button didn't. Lewis is a team player and at this stage of the season it's all about the constructors championship he knows that but Button doesn't seem to or chose not to. Jenson basically disobeyed team orders, yes that satanic element of F1, hence Lewis was pissed.
I don't think Lewis' dad leaving him as manager has affected him this season. I don't think anythng really has changed apart from Lewis seeming a lot calmer out the cockpit and a lot more 'open' with his choice of words in the cockpit.