Unfortunately, there are many dorks out there, that can't be controlled. I fear they won't be impressed much by any threats. And if really one of them will be banned from all servers due to the wreckers barricade, I fear that there will be already two more guys asking you for a/s/l, Becky.
It's a pretty hopeless situation and I really have no clue what would be a good (and realistic) solution to the problem.
The really bad thing is, that this stupid behaviour of some people keeps the even rare femaly community away from LFS.
I really would like to see more women racing with us (just to compete with them).
So Becky, be tough and dont give up. I'm sure that most of us will be more polite to you on track, as you can see in this thread.