If you take the spark plug off and start it until fuel comes out of the cylinder... then put the plug back and it's very hard to pull the starter, this might be because there is too much fuel in the cylinder. Try to unscrew the plug a little bit in that case... then pull the starter a few times, screw the plug back in, and try again.
Also try to take the plug out, and test it with the glower. Does it function? It should give you a nice orange glow. If the glower is too strong, it'll glow like crazy... if it's too weak, it'll glow just a little.
Also make sure that you adjust the fuel mixture needle according to the manual of your RC car. If you haven't checked yet, try it.
Another thing mentioned is to open the throttle a little (it doesn't have to be fully opened as somebody mentioned, but try to open it a little while using the starter, then a little more...
Nitro engines can be a pain to start the first time. It can take some time and it is highly recommended to not do it alone (because it's much easier with a little help). Do you have somebody who could assist you?
PS: Your posts are a real pain to read... how about you at least try to use punctuation and maybe re-read your post and fix a few spelling mistakes here and there before you actually hit the submit button?