This shall be my last post in this thread as your probably all annoyed with me by now...
Just took my Dad's car for a drive just so that I could get an idea of a referenced point on a similar sized car I dont know inside and out... spent the whole time cruising, did put my foot down occasionally but realised while driving fast is fun its very stressful trying to push forward on public roads (i mean driving faster than most - not driving beyond the limits), whereas cruising seems to get me there just as fast (it actually feels faster) but its so much more relaxed. Plus if the trip computers MPG figures are anything to go by it saves my wallet, too.
This single drive has pretty much totally changed my driving style, and totally changed the car i'm looking for - I dont need anything sportier or faster so I can save 2 minutes on my commute, I just want something comfortable I can get in, drive 40 miles, get out and then feel like i've done nothing at all...
I had doubts the car was for me being a wallowy barge and all, but after driving my Dad's car I think it might actually be perfect for me. Awaiting the results of the RAC examination tomorrow, and assuming that goes ok I will take it for another drive and most likely buy it....
And yes I change my mind alot - about 2 hours ago I was freaking out that I didnt know what to do etc. I don't like making decisions and if I get suggestions / comments it helps to reduce the decisions I have to make, which is why i've led you on a merry dance over the last 14 pages...