Its not elitist at all, its the truth. There are lots of LFS users, and you can tell by reading the forums, who are not into the whole 'hardcore' simulation deal. I am sure as LFS matures people will leave because they don't like the 'realism'. LFS has good physics but there are still lots of aspects that are 'arcadey' because they are not yet complete.
I don't see it as being elitist. Where do you sit when you drive a car in real life? The driver seat. Where is that driver seat? Inside the car.
It all comes back to FCV being an option and nothing more than an option. I'm done posting about this because these debates will never end, if we all kept posting we would have a 500 page thread after awhile.