Oh, I agree totally! I was just explaining what the official method of determining whether a team issues an order is
I wouldn't really have an issue with Ferrari telling Kimi to let Massa pass, tbh. There are two concurrent championships in F1 - drivers and teams - and since both of them involve many $millions in prize money, it doesn't seem to me any worse for the team in the pitlane to direct who in the team leads any more than it is for the team to instruct a driver when he should pit, to maximise his points.
Of course, the on-track spectacle would be damaged if it were blatant - and it has been profoundly damaged in the past - but I'm at a place, now, where the whole F1 spectacle is a sham and a charade to me. Team orders would just be another bit of flakey paint on an already unsalvagable rusting F1/FIA hulk, for me.