If your tires getting destroyed quickly you might turn too aggressively or break/accelerate too hard.
Taking corner with a little slide etc
The key is smoothness and keeping grip when turning as well as braking.
I had this problem until I downloaded
this skid sounds those skids sounds are a lot better and louder than standard and I can hear when my tyres starting to lose grip much earlier than with standard sounds.
As a side effect i developed more or less skidless and clean driving style you definitely should check them.
Also you should give more details what are you using as a controller (I assumed you use the mentioned above controller if yes then, do you use analog input for steering, braking and throttle or digital) what kind of tyres etc.
But if you doing everything properly and still have tyres overheating problem its very possible its your driving style to blame.