Sex as a cherry is like trying to smoke the largest most unfathomably large multi-person bong in the world by yourself... You suck hard, and still dont get the high.
Scientifically, medically, and ethically wrong. This definition of gender was defined in the 12th century by a French doctor. The French havent given us anything else worth holding on to, why hold onto this?
Great topic whoever started it anyway, I'm not trying to act big or anything but most people here posting are virgins (nothing wrong with it), and they can't really give good advice,
being a virgin at 25... jesus... thats just sad really... Sad. I can understand if he wants to wait till he's married and all but jesus... Wait... MEh its totally fabracated... Nvm >.<
Yea but if the story is true, he's still a virgin at his age because he met someone so special that he was willing not to have sex untill they were married, so really it was his choice to make losing his virginity better. It's not like he's your average Joe90 who has no interests in women at all and never even tried to get his end off.....
Me too, thats the only reason I clicked this thread, shame it's just starting up the virgin haters club, maybe they should all wear big clokes and hats shaped like a vagina.
I don't quite understand it. There are hundreds of women out there I wouldn't wan to sleep with, but that doesn't really make them special. Also I for one wouldn't marry any of these.
And I think it's quite misleading to think that waiting for sex makes it better. It's rather the other way round: as you wait, you're building up a huge expectation that can't be met, especially, if it's the first time for both.
Also, taking in account that this "we wait 'till we're married" bollocks comes from a rather prudish religious way of life, it's not like they're going to honestly talk about it to improve it. Thus they end up having a screwed (excuse the pun) sex life until midlife crisis kicks in.
Additionally, virginity is overrated. Now I didn't have many virgins in my time, but from my experience, it's rather decreasing the quality of sex, because it's hurtful for girls and you have to be very carefull not to make it any worse than it has to be.
Also, having sex isn't that magic, life changing experience that movies tend to propagate. After your first time, you're exactly the same human being as before (given that the sex was consensual). The "nerd to cool" transformation doesn't happen just because you put your penis inside a vagina.
As closing words: just do what you'd like to do. No need in restraining oneself.
And use proper protection to prevent deseases and pregnancy, like a condom (which should be a definite part as long as you don't know for sure the girl/boy has a STD and you don't plan on becoming parents. Even if she takes the pill)
I that is what makes "Boy" a "Man" then I have been a "Man" since early 16...
I really think that Manliness is defined by person's actions, not his sexual life.
Me too, thats the only reason I clicked this thread, shame it's just starting up the virgin haters club, maybe they should all wear big clokes and hats shaped like a vagina. 
