@rappa

just ask her out on a date, call it a date. say "do you want to go on a coffee date?"

thats it. confirmed to work. straight forward, casual enough that it can be turned around just in case, but i wouldnt at this point.

my luck lately:

girl who is 30ish miles away: she is sub-par, but not terrible. if its a lonely night, i end up staying there/she ends up staying here. always leave with the slight feeling of "meh." in too deep to go back to friends now.

girl who is slightly closer, around 20 miles: she is average, has wanted me since before my ex, about 2 years ago actually... things are finally linking together, but every time im with her, something always prevents anything from happening. always leave with my tank significantly lower, and my wallet pissed.

girl who is a 2 minute walk from above: petite, but hot. would bang. just hung out with her, cant decide if wants it or not. we talked about our sex lives while we were there, i wake up the next morning with a text saying "chris, would you have sex with me."
we will see where this goes.

only local girl i have had any physical contact with is showing the most mixed signals possible. may update. she is bangin.

so the verdict is, im only getting anything from the furthest away, least desirable. the closer, the less likely, also the most desirable.
notsureifok

Quote from Klutch :

hittin zee clubs tonight

down half a bottle of vodka before ive even lefttttttttt

i feel like you look like him:



EDIT: thats the longest haired picture i could find to compare with.

Quote from Klutch :

you are nowhere near mature enough for an actual relationship, you have the mentality of a child.. but it sounds like you're both suited to each other.

replace the word relationship with the word car and notice the irony

well in my personal case, if you have anything at all to really hide on facebook/tumblr/instagram/twitter etc, you are probably using the internet wrong. those are NOT secure places to keep stuff you dont want anyone seeing. phone conversations are one thing, but that brings me to the next point.

when i was in a relationship, i had no intentions in cheating. none. if you want to cheat at all, break up because that means your not happy, or you want something to change. fact.
i do infact (And did when i had a gf also) have a friend who was a girl where we would always joke about how were gonna bang, and we were extra close etc. we never hid the 'gonna bang' jokes, even around the gf at the time, because why act differently when she was around, as long as there was trust. when i was dating her, aside from that friend, i wouldnt do anything questionable on my phone because i knew things never looked how they appeared. she would grab my phone, and i wouldnt panic at all. i wanted to start flirting with people openly, so i broke up with her. i wanted something to change and i took the initiative instead of convincing myself.

i ALSO want to mention that even piss drunk i dont believe i would cheat. i have that mindset pretty hammered into my skull, and have been drunk with a girlfriend without her being there. i kept tame.


this post ended up being quite useless.

EDIT: after the proofread i remembered where i was going with this.

so now that im single, im ALLOWED to flirt with girls, i do so wherever i see fit whether its text/facebook/shapchat/in person etc. nobody grabs at my phone. yeah...

Last edited by logitekg25, Sun, 20 Jan 2013 06:38.

get a bag of powder at a bulk store (not sure the ones there, but BJ's, costco, sam's club etc) for around $45-50 for a HUGE bag. each session, use one packed scoop, and around 3/4 of another scoop ontop of that in a blender. add around a cup of milk, peanut butter, FROZEN banana, and blend it up. its very thick and very delicious. use alot of peanut butter, use a little more than one banana per. if its not that thick, add more banana or peanut butter, or use less milk.

one of the threads had people talking about similar, could have sworn it was this...4 wasnt one of the ones i was questioning the legitimacy of it, but it did happen

EDIT: yeah, look 5-10 posts above my post.

difficult to keep that from happenning...a co worker im into knows im on the market almost read a text that said "lets bang" to a good friend (a joke but she wouldnt know that...). its bad when you have to rip it out of her hand...

i like to keep record of conversations just so i can go back if i need to. comes in handy.

pulled over 5 times, a few deserved, a few were not.

1. on my permit, we pulled into a parking lot at night to switch drivers, and about a mile up the road i got pulled over because they thought we were robbing the place...the switch took about 30 seconds....by the end of the stop, it had been a half hour, and they called in a second cruiser......
understandable reason, considering robberies dont have to take a long time, but a half hour, and a second cruiser?

2. there is a main congested road with a set of lights at the top, and a few hundred feet back there is a turn to get to the bank i was going to ALOT quicker, but under construction, and no traffic besides residents.
i took the turn thinking my reason was not terrible, and got up to around 25 mph, in the 20 mph speed limit. at the top of the hill i got yelled at by 2 cops who said i was flying (second gear sounds like your going alot faster than you are) and im not a resident. they said if they wanted to mail me a ticket they might. never got one.
pretty good reason to be stopped and yelled at, but they werent too nice either way.

3. i was driving me, my gf at the time, and her friend to get some ice cream (so hardcore), and driving casually, just chatting, so not looking out for the law. at a set of lights i notice this guy pull excessively close to me, but people do that, so whatever. then as i continue going around 42-43 in a 40 he is RIGHT UP MY A*S. a bit fed up (if i hit the brakes its reckless driving), i downshift to 4th, then 3rd, then 2nd, ending up going around 25 in a 40 with this guy feet away from my bumper.
then he ends up being a state policeman, and pulls me over for "reckless driving, weaving over the lines, and inconsistent speed." he ends up being a chill guy noticing we are up to nothing bad, and lets me off with a lecture on how people get shot for reckless driving like that; the way he went about pulling me over (tailgating me) was not ok.
i went through the same stretch of road seeing if i could possibly be overshooting the lines without noticing while distracted, no way in hell. the reflectors in the center make too much of a fuss, and the line on the side is VERY sketchy to even get near on that road.
my speed may have been inconsistent because i drive according to whats coming up, and i truly take the speed-limit as a suggestion. if there is a corner, why am i going to go the same speed as when there wasnt a corner? if its perfectly straight, why stick to cornering speed? (the speed limit is never completely ignored obviously...)

4. me and a girl trying to find a place to makeout at night, pull behind a warehouse that sells water heaters in my e39 (sedan, il get to this detail in a sentence or two). a cop followed us in there, lights on. he gets his flashlight, i turn all the interior lights on, keep my hands on the wheel (who is more nervous? him.), he does a quick flashlight inspection of the inside of the car, and asks us what were doing. i say checking it out because im not from around there and i dont know whats back there. he asks if were going to break in, and its obvious im not cause i cant even fit anything from in there in my car. 30 second stop, very nice cop. would recommend him to others.

cant remember if there was a 5th or not, i feel like there was, but i have never been stopped because of getting clocked going too fast, or any other real violation..

the only time i may be cautious at a green (i never hit the brakes, just extra cautious) is when its a high speed area such as a highway, where you need the extra stopping distance and there is a camera to snap pictures of the light-runners.

the odds are the same, but in a rave you are in the mindset of having a good NIGHT, in the supermarket you are more in awe that you got noticed. first impression is altered because of above.

regardless it depends on the people entirely.

im not saying its not possible, i dont go to raves..not too many around here tbh

but im trying to get the point across that there are more places to meet people that are 'just right.'

have all of your recents been from the party scene?

not trying to poke at you, but if so think about where you are sourcing from...i understand finding similar interests, but party scene is quite short lived in general.

my first is a random girl from a friend, second is random girl from a random place, third was a bored chat, 4th was a friend's gf's friend...you never know where you are going to meet somebody you are into, be prepared always. be confident sober, be yourself thoroughly.

but single is amazing, im just out of a 5 month one, and living it up...you have to remember to make the most of what you currently can.


dont beat yourself up...we all learn that b*tches be crazy

wasn't there a resolution thread somewhere i cant find? i remember looking forward to it

i miss having a biking buddy
or time for that matter.....

but biking as a hobby or just to d*ck around? hobbyist here

no shave november:

at that point, will a tire help either?

i dont think the argument is what prevents damage best, i think it is what is the best in small impacts

really not a bad idea...just not sure what i can hang it from on my car

it will work for a month before the water sets in and renders it useless.

no idea what im talking about?

i had to run < 3 feet of 0 gauge wiring and it cost me $20. take into consideration waste, runs back and fourth (my battery is in the trunk, i imagine he has a battery or two back there to power it). this can add up quickly in itself. the big 3 is 0 gauge wire, which is pricy.

tell me powerful amps that are efficient arent expensive? tell me quality components arent expensive?

what do you think he spent it all on? beer for the install? he only needs to budget 1k for that.

amps to power that are very expensive, especially ones that are slim/efficient.

battery

big 3 (and other 0 gauge needed)

digital wiring cant be cheap

sound deadening/dynomat etc

it adds up, but 10k might be a slight exxageration
the cost of the speakers isn't even half of it.

no yt videos are waaaaaay too compressed to rip audio from...im not saying im a know it all, im just saying what the person who does this for a living told me.

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I wouldn't have a $10k stereo without knowing what's better than AUX....

money =/= brains

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if you have a phone with Digital Output, like iPhone, that's even better quality that AUX.

false i believe, especially if there is a charging feature going on also.

if it is charging, then there are 2 currents running on the cable instead of 1; if not charging just digital, im not sure.

also im not positive about that, but thats my local audio shop's words.

im assuming its a less-than-great edit on a cut on my chin from my straight razor for no shave november...