OK - I checked that line (great thanks for that) and as far as I am concerned did what it suggested.
I have just tried an on line game and
- I can see that it is listed by checking on games listed on LFS world
- I also saw a message on screen (in game) "time out connection"

This suggests to me that someone tried to connect but failed
Any more suggestions ?
Am I at least heading in the right direction?

- like I say I am a bit thick on these sort of things