Shaun, as I told you in messenger some week ago already about the same topic: You've been away and you look for your old habits and buddies. But those guys who were once there changed... Some of them quitted, others are only in leagueracing or so, as doing public for 4 years would be pretty much sad basically. As it would prove that LFS goes on, but you havent.
There are simple things which really prove you wrong: The online user numbers, the growing number of leagues and the growing numbers of posts/day in this forum here (and almost every local forum too).
LFS grows, and if you feel left behind, it's up to you, to catch the train. It's not the trains fault, if you hit the station too late
If you are as a hardcore simmer as you say you are, get back to league racing as you once did. OLFSL is still there e.g.
and it's cool. Or go ctra, etm, stcc or or or. But that would need some commitment from your side. If you are looking for pickup only, then go to the ctra or cone dodgers (e.g.) and you'll actually find pretty good and watched pickup races. The drivers there are not the ones you raced with though (most of the time), as I explained you earlier on, they evolved.
LFS is on the right way. A slow one, but the right one! Stay here, and just keep racing (and dont interupt it again for a year or two, you bloody danicing bastard :P
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Cheers