You'd need to get a server, which you can either run yourself if you have a good connection, or a server that you have access to. Or, you could rent one from a server provider, 500servers.com and storm-servers are two good ones, so i've heard.
You would then need to talk to them about running LFSLapper, as this would probably be the easiest way.
I know that LFSLapper can detect this & can output this into the public chat history, so I should imagine that it would be able to restrict such thing.
Only trouble is - you cannot tell the difference between a wheel & a gamepad.... as they are both "controllers" and that is the way that they are publically known.
However you can detect if they're using manual clutch & blip, and what gearing type that they are using.
If LFS Lapper does not permit this kind of usage, then I could create a small insim application that would do this for you.
Let me know either way

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Hope this helped!
- Mark